Is it crazy that im just turning 13 and feel that im ready to have sex? Its just that the guy i like seems like hes in to it and i really like him. i feel ready. im not really sure. he would want me to because hes the ganster type. (you know, drugs, achohol, fighting, skipping school, girls, and sex.) If he was to ask me, id say no first. but if he kept asking id say yeah. he is just sooooooo ah-mazing!!! he blows my mind. when i see him i dont even know who i am. id probably do drugs,drink, fight, skip school, and have sex for him. Is that crazy?
2006-09-16 11:47:00 · 19 answers · asked by way2sexigurl69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is NOT a crack head (its just weed)so please no one say that again and i am not stupid either. i dont really think its as much as a big deal as most of these answers are saying it is. So what if im 13. i am ready and im probably gonna do it anyway no matter what anyone says. but dont worry ill be safe. (unless he doesnt want to be safe)
2006-09-16 12:15:24 · update #1
and he is not a loser either. he's the best thing that ever happened to me, even if he has a girlfriend right now!!!!
2006-09-16 12:18:58 · update #2
You deserve more than to be "one of his girls" you need someone that will really care about you. Not about the other stuf u mentioned. No you are not crazy. This is a serious decision, and you shouldn't do anything blindly. Know that your whole life could be ruined if you hang out with some one like this. Think about your future. Do you want your life to be centered around this way of life? Do you really want to go down this path, to throw away money. To ruin your physical body? Please tell me you wont fall for this kind of trap. Please tell me you are smarter than that!!!!! I also dont even know you, but I really care. You are 13, you have a whole life in front of you. please don't. please.....
2006-09-21 15:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by BMac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's crazy please wait i know you think you are ready but at 13 you have so much more time to be thinking about sex. Drinking fighting and skipping school is no way to live believe me i did it and still regret it now ( im 23 now) i got my self into some sticky situations. I know you feel you really like this guy but i strongly suggest you steer clear of him before you make a mistake or get hurt. He WILL bring you down
2006-09-16 18:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have just one thing to ask you. If you were the mother of a 13 year old girl who was thinking what your thinking how would you feel. That's all I can say your going to do what you want to we can't stop you. I just hope that you don't and get out of that situation I've see to mush go wrong and it's always the wrong one's that get hurt. I grow up in the city I know what I'm talking about. I don't even know you but I care.
2006-09-16 20:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention to those others, listen to me. No your not crazy, go for it. Have sex with that dirtbag. Get yourself pregnant. Drop out of school cause you have a baby to care for (or maybe you'll just through it in a dumpster?). And afterwards, he won't pay attention to you cause your just another piece of A** to him!! So after you have sex, and he doesn't pay attention to you no more, start "acting cool" yourself (you know try to impress him) like fighting, skipping school and doing drugs, this will show him your love for him and afterwards, when all that "impressing" doesn't work, you'll be back on Yahoo answers pleading for help cause your about to kill yourself. So noooo...you ain't crazy. Go for it girl. (Translation just in case you didn't catch the meaning of the answer, ----> Are U *&%$ing OUT OF YOUR MIND!! )
2006-09-16 19:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by microwaved-brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by having doubts that should tell you something. I think u know that u should not do it. Believe me I did it when i was 15 had a baby when i was 16 and he was doing drugs. well I stay with him for 7 years cause of the kids and when i finally decided to leave him he try to kill me. Cause u can never change a man.so be smart about it.k
2006-09-16 18:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by shy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are crazy, if you are ready to sex means that you are ready to have a baby and at 13 then yeah that is crazy, too young to be thinking about that stuff.
2006-09-16 18:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not crazy. You are 13 years old and you feel like most new teenagers. If you have sex with him though, he may ditch you. The fun is in the game.
2006-09-16 18:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by Askip1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that a serious question? Of course you shouldn't do it. Whether you feel you are ready or not you need to make your own judgements - don't do something because someone else wants you to. You will be doing this your entire life if you don't learn to make your own decisions now.
2006-09-16 18:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Your to young and you have your whole life ahead of you. This guy isn't worth it because he's someone who'd just do you and leave you because that's all he wants. Plus you could come out positive for a Sexually Transmitted Disease or worst Death.
2006-09-16 18:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, try to imagine your life 5 years from now... is it in jail? if not, you aren't supposed to be doing these things, don't get caught up with this guy if you arent goin to marry him... i made the same mistake, just with a girl... do what your heart tells you to, not what the fun thing to do is, i know it's probably not the thing you want to hear right now, but it's just not healthy... trust me....
2006-09-16 18:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by gunther 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋