okay i met this gurl two days ago and asked her for her number... yester day i call her and ask her out to dinner and she said "yes" but she said that she has to see if she can go also... and she mentioned that shes going to be with her friends tommorow too... and she tells me to call her the next day in the afternoon... so i call her today in the afternoon and she says thats it is iffy.. she said she wil if her friends leave early.. and she will call me to tell me wheather or not she can go.. SHE CALLS ME AT 9:45 and TELLS ME THAT SHE CANT GOOOO WTF? and by that time i was already kickin it with my friends n e ways.. so i wanna know what going on... she had two missed calls from and called me back and she had always kept her word i think.. i wanna know if she's still interested and when should i call her next and is she interested in me? should i mention this at all too her?(i wanna throw this out too she is foriegn and only been here for 1 yr) so maybe shes different.. need 2 win her
2006-09-16 11:40:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-16 11:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all back off, dont let her know you are so hot for her and act nonchalant. Go out with another beautiful girl and make sure she sees. Just act like yeah we can be friends whatever, you let it be known you like her and she didnt seem interested, ok move on.
Then stay in the distance until she notices YOU. Then you can do something sweet like send her some pretty flowers, not red roses, with a nice note saying to a beautiful lady lets get together sometime and let her come to you. I think you might be chasing her away a little. No girl likes to feel like a guy is obsessed or some stalker or something, we have to be protective of ourselves in this world.
Good luck, and if you show her youre a good man perhaps she'll want to get to know you better.
2006-09-16 18:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by PeaceTree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foreign or not it does not matter. You met her two days ago, so you call the next day and so on. Is she interested? Maybe, or maybe not.
Don't call her, for goodness sake. you have already called enough times. Wait for her call. You have already asked her out, don't be a fool, be a man and stand up for your self.
You will know she is interested if she calls back to arrange the date. If she does, go and have fun leave the seriousness for another time.
If she doesn't call, I guess you will know the answer. Good Luck.
2006-09-16 18:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Maria C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she's putting you off is not a good sign. In addtion to that, she obviously doesn't have enough backbone to tell you she's not interested in you. Do you want a woman like that? Even if she does eventually say yes, think about the way a woman like this is going to deal with you down the road. If I were in your shoes, I'd look for someone with atleast enough courage to tell you how she honestly feels and what she does and doesn't want.
2006-09-16 18:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow dont pounce on her like that aight, just tell her to give u a call when she is free. in The mean time u can talk to her on the phone see what she is all about. I talked with my now bf on teh phone for a whole month becuase I was soooo busy. When we went out it was so good because there was nothing left to do but to take this one step further.
2006-09-16 18:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by covergirl1303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down!
You look like a wimp if you go chasing her like that.
She must like your looks and style, but if you act like a beggar she'll treat you like a beggar and only toss you left-overs.
She's got your number, let it sit for awhile. If she doesn't call back hopefully you'll meet "by accident" and you can pick up where you left off.
Slow down, don't chase, keep your pride, be cool.
2006-09-16 19:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u both go 2 school look 4 her and ask her there or 2 a dance
2006-09-16 18:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by ♥KyKy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only been 2 days...RELAX! If u call her too often she won't want u-don't be too available- make her want u & wonder why u HAVEN'T called, not omg it's him AGAIN!take it slow & enjoy it. give her the benefit of the doubt, maybe she has been busy...good luck!
2006-09-16 19:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by cameo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need to keep cool. Call her and say something ... too bad we didn't go out last night, how about.... whatever...
2006-09-16 18:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by Andy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, it's been 2 days that you've known her. How complicated could it be. chill out.
2006-09-16 18:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋