2006-09-16 11:33:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Especially if it was once mutual, unrequited love can be heartbreaking. It’s natural to mourn the loss of envisioned possibilities that, for whatever reasons, could never be realized. Don’t allow yourself to play the “What Ifs” game and don’t lose faith in yourself. He will eventually fade into bittersweet memory. Someone else will find you, who you’ll see is much better suited for you in many important ways. Your lasting love will be wholly shared, returned and cherished. You shouldn't settle for anything less.
2006-09-16 12:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very difficult sometimes to try and comprehend why someone who supposedly is 'in love' with you, then starts to falls out of love with you, especially if you haven't sensed some emotional detachmeant between you going on.
It is likely he has been feeling this way for some time and now is more certain that his feelings for you are not deep or as strong enough to maintain the relationship.
At least he was honest with you and although the news can be hard to accept, but you have to ask yourself, would you rather have lived a life of pretence with him, knowing how he feels, because even that would eventually take its toll and the inevitable would happen anyway. Remember, not all relationships are ment to last.
At least him saying how he feels, gives you both the opportunity to find the love and happiness you both truly deserve with someone else.
Its time to say goodbye to this relationship, be thankful for what you once both had and shared, take your time to grieve over this relationship and remember that one day to, you will be thankfull you had went your separate ways.
Good luck
2006-09-16 12:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry. Most likely I would cry, then wonder what was wrong with my for hours on end, cry some more, call my friends over for a shoulder to cry some more on then eat comfort food. But I'm kind of a baby :) I would then mope for days, and eventually come to terms with it. I would reliase that if he didn't love me anymore, then what I fell for him mustn't be love either. I'd move on. The end basically, even though every once in a while I would stop for a second, and think about him, but just for a second, then continue on. Sorry, I'm kind of a hopeless romantic :D Good luck.
2006-09-16 12:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately love can never be a one-sided thing... even though you love this person very much there really isnt much that you can do, after all we cant make the ones we love return our love, we can only give love and hope that it is returned... if not then all you can do is to move on with your life and find someone who will love you and treat you with the same respect and heart felt emotion.. it may take a long time but you can love again. There is more than one person out there to love, and they will love you as much as you love them... even though you are heartbroken that the one you gave your heart to doesnt feel the same for you anymore, you deserve so much more... no one could be happy with someone who does this. Move forward with your life, find someone who is more deserving of your love, someone you can share your life with who wont turn their back on you
take care of your heart and yourself
the pain will fade with time, a part of you will always love this person and they will forever be a part of your life and your past, move forward to bigger and better things...
2006-09-16 11:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by beautifullybroken 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The most healthy thing to do would be to try to listen to what he said, and do make the best effort to get over him. Once someone (especially men more than women) falls out of love with someone, it is almost impossible to make them like you again. The best course of action, were you to decide that you do want to take a huge risk and try to stay with him, would be to start ignoring him / letting him know that you can get by without him. Don't call him, don't contact him at all, only react when he talks to you, and at that, don't act too interested. It's a very dificult place to be in, and the overall best course of action would be to try to get over him.
2006-09-16 11:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by danimal3114u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but you have to try to move on. You have to know you can't change how he feels. Love is both ways, and if he doesn't love you anymore you have to move on and find someone who feels the same way. Good Luck!
2006-09-16 11:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short, let him go - you are meant to meet another hes not the one for you and you only think you love him in a few months you will look back and say why did I waste my time on him..I am talking with experience, dont waste your precious time on someone who doesnt love you - you deserve better - its fate!!
2006-09-16 11:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id leave. give yourself time to get over it, then move on. its no good being with someone who doesnt love u and never will, u will never be happy in that situation. u will love again even if u dont think u will and hopefully, that person will love u back, then u will be truely happy.
2006-09-16 12:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by crophilia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two loves to make it work,and one is gone,love hurts but move on and find you someone that will make you happy again and have fun enjoy life,don't dwell on the past.
2006-09-16 11:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know why then after they tell me I would start the process of moving on you can't make no one love you that is just something that you will have to accept
2006-09-16 11:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋