Her mom's is going to live from out of state to our state and force her to go with her but she does not wants to go and we don't know what to do we both are over age and we want to get married but here mom just want to take her away and now we both don't know what to do any help??? please!! : (
2006-09-16 11:18:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
How many times are you going to ask the same damn question. So far its been 8 times. I know dont care if your girlfriend leaves or not and if she has any sense she will.
2006-09-16 11:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Gar 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you willing to marry your gf? If not, you are not serious about her future and she should go with her mother. It could be that her Mom can tell that she is not ready to be on her own in a relationship that involves as much sex as you want, since that tends to cloud thinking and making good decisions. Be honest, is that why you want her to stay? Are you prepared to work to take good care of your gf? IF so, you will be prepared to marry her and make a future for the two of you.
I would say that at eighteen, you have a lot more growing up to do. Eighteen is not magic if you are not mature. Sorry, guy, but with the whining, you don't sound mature enough to deal with a wife.
2006-09-16 12:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is an adult, her mom can't force her to do anything.
Now if she is helping support you, then she has every right to pull any help.
The best option is to sit down and talk with her, like an adult. No yelling or screaming. (even if she does it) Conduct yourself in healthy and smart way.
Always remember that this is your girlfriend's mother, and she will always will be. Treat her with respect. Don't let her walk over you either. See if there is some sort of compromise to be made. (you move there too, you will visit once a month..week..year, etc)
2006-09-16 11:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by rebeccalynn_dj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Legally, she can't force her to move with her, but parents have a pretty strong hold on us long after we are the legal age. I suppose if you ran off and got married, she'd have even less control over her, or if you two just came up with a plan to insist that she stay. Perhaps if your girlfriends had a plan for providing for herself and you shower her mother that you are a "good guy" in the ways parents would like their daughter's future husbands to be, maybe her mom would come around just enough to let her stay.
2006-09-16 11:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her mom can't do nothing. She is of legal age and she is an adult therefor she can legally live on her own. Don't let her mom trick her into something she don't want to do. Her mom is just doing some wishful thinking and hopes her daughter will believe her and move in with her. Tell her NOT to fall for it! Her mom can't make her do anything cause she is 18 she is an adult!
2006-09-16 11:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you have a job? does she? can you both pay rent & bills? can you afford birth control? if she gets pregnant, can you afford to raise a child? can you talk about money and other sensitive subjects with each other? I'm sure her Mom is just looking out for her daughter...she knows what it's like to be young and in love. Her Mom can't legally make her do anything if she is 18. Just think. Be sensible.
2006-09-16 12:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by lil_angel64 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is legally able to leave. I'm sure her mom has her best interests at heart, but if it is really a bad situation then just move and don't leave a forwarding address. When you two get where you are going, get some jobs and get some education. Please don't start having kids right away. You are both too young for all of this.
2006-09-16 11:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by applebetty34 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She can't be forced to move...but don't get married to avoid it! Go ahead and live together first so you have the duel income, or maybe she could apply to a local college and dorm. She could get student-aid and student loans. Good luck to you both!
2006-09-16 11:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by ladypersephone21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's 18. Her mom can't force her to go anywhere. All she has to do is say no.
2006-09-16 11:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gte jobs, live togather, save up and be happily married. She is an adult and to some extent can do what the **** she likes.
2006-09-20 03:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋