grrr! i like this guy soooo much and i can't stop thinking about him! and he likes me too but i'm with someone right now and we just got back together last week and i used to like this guy alot when we were together at first and now that we're together again it seems like he's just there and i dont't feel the same and people are telling he's a waste that i shouldn't be with him =S omg!!!!. what should i do?? should i stay with who i'm with now or go for the one who i like more?
2006-09-16 11:17:44 · 11 answers · asked by nasheila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself this......Am I truly happy with the guy I just got back with? OR would this other guy make me happier? I think you already know the answer. Follow your heart it will never betray you. Go with your gut instinct on this....if I were your gut, I'd say, get rid of the guy I just got back with. Its obvious you have no feelings for him anymore, sad but that's life, it happens. That's all part of dating when you are younger, you are finding out what you like and don't like in a relationship. Dump the old one and give the new one a try.
2006-09-16 11:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of having your cake and eating it to?
Sounds cruel, but talk to the other guy (I didn't say run off and start having mad sex with him, or making out, etc...just talk). See if he really is something you'd rather have or you just suffer from "the grass is greener on the other side" syndrome. You're not married and there are many, many fish in the sea. Never let your options slide merely because you feel obligated to a week long relationship.
2006-09-16 18:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by A.R. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 the 1 u like more
2006-09-16 18:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 the 1 u like more
2006-09-16 18:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by tiffany072390 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and experience life. If you feel no passion from the guy you're with now, you are wasting your time. Speaking from my own experience, dump the guy you're with now and go for the guy you have the hots for. You're young. You're not meant to be with the guy you're with now since you're feeling hot and bothered about another guy.
I was in your shoes once upon a time, and because I didn't dump my boyfriend for the guy I had the hots for I always regretted it, so learn from my mistake.
2006-09-16 18:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by TheCoconutGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so obvious I can't understand why you still ask. Go for the guy you feel for. It seems that you and the first guy just got used to each other .
2006-09-16 18:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont keep yourself in a relationship u aren't happy with, no use in making yourself miserable, and plus it wouldnt be fair to ur b/f to stay in a "dead end" relationship, I think deep inside u knew the answer to this question all along, cuz your heart has already told u the answer.
2006-09-16 18:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like you said it is not the same..if its not the same your relationship is in trouble, if you can not see it getting any better. you should finish now and save more hurt for either party in the long run..... and well you really like someone els....that says alot
2006-09-16 18:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by loopy lass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feeling like that, then be woman enough to tell your current BF that you woul feel better just being friends.....Now your single you can mingle
2006-09-16 18:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't happy with who you are with then whats the point of being with them? Go for what is going to make you happy.
2006-09-16 18:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Gyrlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋