Her mom's is going to live from out of state to our state and force her to go with her but she does not wants to go and we don't know what to do we both are over age and we want to get married but here mom just want to take her away and now we both don't know what to do any help??? please!! : (
2006-09-16 11:17:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
joda a su mama
that means **** hermom is spanish.
2006-09-16 11:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by bsktballchik 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you're both over the age of 18, no one can force your girlfriend to move with them. Technically, unless her mom has some type of financial strain holding her back from being with you, she has nothing to lose by moving in and getting married to you.
When I was 20 I moved to a different state to be with my fiance full time. Although it made my parents really upset (my mom still won't get over it) they still love me. She tried all she could to get me to stay but all-in-all, if you're ready to take on those adult responsibilities then I say go for it. Just be careful and make sure that you are doing what you really want.
2006-09-16 11:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have either (or both) of you spoken to her mother to let her know of your intentions? If she knew you two planned to wed she might not be so eager to drag her daughter away. Also, if the two of you are planning to wed, will you be getting your own home? If so there is no way for her mother to be able to force her against her will to go. You could get the home you plan to move into and either both live there while making your wedding plans or if youd rather be more traditional you could let her live there while you live elsewhere and only move in together after the weddding.
Good Luck
2006-09-16 11:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to check out the emancipation laws for your state. For example, in New York
New York does not have a law which provides for emancipation. (That is, unlike in most states, there is no mechanism by which a minor can go to court and formally petition to be declared an emancipated minor.) However, it is also my understanding that New York courts will recognize the status of an emancipated minor, assuming that the minor meets the essential elements of being emancipated.
Those required elements are:
* The minor must be aged 16 or older;
* The minor must reside independently of his or her parents;
* The minor must be self supporting (although public assistance or court-ordered child support payments made to the minor would not disqualify the minor from being recognized as emancipated);
* The minor must not be in need of or receipt of foster care; and
* The minor must be living beyond the custody and control of his or her parents.
2006-09-16 11:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by williegod 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are both 18 or over do what you feel is best. If you decide to move in together and get married, her mother will just have to deal with it. You sould however, both sit with her and talk about it maturely and honestly. Then make a decision.
2006-09-16 11:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by intelect1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why aren't the two of you in college? If you and your GF lived on campus, you wouldn't have this problem.
Don't get married. That's just silly at your age.
She might have to move in with you if she can't afford her own apartment. Better yet, does she have a friend she could live with? You are really too young to live together.
2006-09-16 11:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The girl if over the age of 18 and she can do as she pleases. The girl also needs to understand that mom will not be required to provide any financial help. Get married if you want to. Its your choice, your decision, and your responsibility for that choice and decision. Welcome to real life.
2006-09-16 11:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her Mom cannot force her to go anywhere if she is over 18.
2006-09-16 11:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by dh1977 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Legally, you don't have a problem. The problem is if your girlfriend wants to get anything from her mother in the future.
Does your girlfriend need money from her mother?
Does she want to go to college?
Is your girlfriend OK with her mother not supporting her?
You should only press this issue if your relationship is VERY committed, and you and your girlfriend are financially independent.
2006-09-16 11:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by stevejensen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is a legal adult. if she is competent mentally her mother cannot do anything about it.
however, it could start a serious problem for all of you if she rebels.
just get in a position where you will never need her mother and you will be good to go.
if need be, contact a local lawyer
2006-09-16 11:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can say NO to her mom if she is a legal adult.
Get married.
2006-09-16 11:42:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋