Is it crazy that im just turning 13 and feel that im ready to have sex? Its just that the guy i like seems like hes in to it and i really like him. i feel ready. im not really sure. he would want me to because hes the ganster type. (you know, drugs, achohol, fighting, skipping school, girls, and sex.) If he was to ask me, id say no first. but if he kept asking id say yeah. he is just sooooooo ah-mazing!!! he blows my mind. when i see him i dont even know who i am. id probably do drugs,drink, fight, skip school, and have sex for him. Is that crazy?
2006-09-16 10:56:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, that sounds great !! Good times!!
Oh, and if you have sex, make sure it's unprotected!
2006-09-16 10:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
No,not crazy,sweetie.But it would be a very bad idea,and quite dangerous.I would suggest you keep your virginity intact for a while.I understand that when you like someone and/or get very aroused,things can blur,and things that seemed bad before might not seem so bad,but believe me,they are just as bad now as they were before.Oral sex is also dangerous.No,don't have sex yet.Not even if he keeps asking.Don't get into fights or drink alcohol or do drugs.This may not seem like much fun now,but years from now you will be glad that you didn't do these things.Or,if you do them,you may regret it later and spend the rest of your life wishing you hadn't.
Think about it carefully.
2006-09-16 11:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by brainchild0069 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy? No
WAY to young to accept the responsibilities of sex? Definately
I know exactly where youre coming from, but please don't have sex. You're only thirteen, have you even considered what you'll have to go through if you get pregnant? It will be absolute hell. And what about an STD? You'll have to tell every sexual partner you have in the future that you have one, including a future husband. PLEASE wait until you are mature enough, financially and emotionally stable enough, and old enough to have sex, and accept all the responsibilites therein.
As for the drugs and alcohol portion of your question, yes, you are crazy! If you change yourself for a guy, he won't respect you, you won't respect yourself, and you'll literally be damaging your brain. Brain cells DO NOT grow back sweetie, so if you kill them off doing drugs to impress a boy who sounds like a loser in life anyway, you won't ever get them back. Keep it in mind.
2006-09-16 11:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by legallyblond2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing drugs, fighting, and skipping school are not good things to do for love. At 13, neither is sex. This might not be the answer you're looking for, and it might not be chosen as the best answer, but it's the right answer.
2006-09-16 11:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself one question: Where do I want to be 10 years from now? If the answer is " I want to be successful and making a good living and moving up in the world." Then you better run fast from this boy. You must place yourself on the top of a self worth ladder and insist that if he wants to be with you then he climbs up. YOU NEVER EVER climb down for anyone.
2006-09-16 11:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by justhinking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is crazy and it is incredibly stupid.
No boy is worth throwing your future away over. That is exactly what you would be doing and you know it.
Drugs, drinking, early teen sex, skipping school, yada, yada. All lead to a dead end road sooner or later. You are way too young to be nothing for the rest of your life - and you would be nothing.
2006-09-16 11:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, that is a little crazy. if he's the gangster type, you'll wind up getting pregnant and he'll leave you as soon as look at you. he's gonna break your heart, mark my words! just wait...i know it's hard to wait right now but you will be thankful in the end when you've found someone that you're totally in love with, and you will understand once you've experienced these feelings for a matter of years!
2006-09-16 11:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i wont to say is that you dont need to rush it cuz i did and now i regret the decision that i made when i turned 13 i thought that i was ready to have sex but now i realize that i wasn't and i should of had waited dont be like me cuz you never no what can happen you could get pregnant or aids just dont do it cuz if you do you will regret it....halla at cho girl
2006-09-16 11:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by Drina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are quite young now and not yet ready to have all that now YOU become crazy because you have just heard about the sex pleasure and have feelings to enjoy that.
2006-09-16 11:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its slightly crazy, but that's okay.
But don't have sex. You've probably heard it a million times: you're not ready. And you really aren't. Sure, physically you are, but emotionally you're not. It could be a huge mistake that you could never take back. If he's really "ah-mazing", he won't pressure you into doing something you're unsure of.
Be careful. <3
2006-09-16 11:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by kachelsachel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes never ever change for a boy but if this is what you want not the boy biut the rest of it then go for it i think 13 to young you just became a real teenager and that as soon as you hit highschool its okay not nessicarly the best idea but not omg why would you do that. also if hes worth it he'll wnat you more than sex
2006-09-16 10:59:46 · answer #11 · answered by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋