2006-09-16 10:55:22 · 18 answers · asked by Michelle E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh it sucks...
I had a girl dump me about a year ago and still loved her... I thought I was going to die! Even now when I see her, it still wrenches at me just a bit... but, life must go on... Eventually you'll start talking to other people and everything will be ok...
You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.
2006-09-16 10:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by MB_Bailey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts so much, the best thing to do is to try and occupy your mind and actions with something unrelated. When you find your thoughts creeping back to this, force yourself to dream about a pleasant view or think of a favorite pet -- anything to stop the obsession. If you continue to think about the inability to be with them, it will be harder and take longer to get over. The very best way to end the pain is to meet someone new that you enjoy and spend time with them..
2006-09-16 18:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by clh023348 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the circumstances.
If the person is married, you're just going to have to deal with it and move on with your life. No matter how hard it is to do, you just have to forget about ever being with the person. You can always be their friend if you want. If the person is going out with someone, approach the person as a friend for sure. If the person ever breaks up with the other person, it's your chance.
2006-09-16 17:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by ashkadoodles12345 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats the case with me too !!
i dont know what to do, but i keep hoping that i'll meet him someday n talk my heart to him,well till then i hv to keep patience .
well the case with me is he proposed 2 me around 3yrs back but i dint make up my mind then n from that time onwards i am living with this dillema, and since then whenever i see him frm a distance my heart skips a beat n u know the worst ,i still cant make up my mind whether i am in love or not ??!!
anyways since u recognised that 4 u its love then congratulate urself that u understand urself and pray that ur guy falls in 4 u !!
best of luck.
2006-09-17 02:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have gone through the same feeling and believe me I know it is the toughest thing in life. But my personal decision was "Jab se chahat ko samjha chahte hain tumhe, par chaah kar bhi yeh tumko bata na sake , tumko khone ke gam mein lut gaye is kadar ki chaah kar bhi kabhi tumko paa na sake!" I will never tell her.
Sincerely
Vanchit
2006-09-16 23:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by vanchit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I m in the verry same position at the moment. I love him more than anything else in my life. But he can never be mine - never.
I infact dont even want to have him upto myself anymore. It took me full 2 yrs. to make myself understand tht. he can't be mine.
Infact I m still fighting myself each day - sinking the fact each day into my heart n soul.
2006-09-16 18:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by simi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know that you can't be with him or her, then you just have to move on and just let go of those feelings that cannot be shared. That would be setting yourself up for failure.
Find time for yourself, clear your mind of this person and open up your heart to someone who can really reciprocate your love.
2006-09-16 18:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by sugarapple25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know because i like a boy but ever time i talk to him i always smlime and we always a play fight and make fun of each of all the time
2006-09-16 18:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by nathasha s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit out in the country and watch the stars until you forget.
2006-09-16 17:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i knew i could not be with the person I'm deeply in love with i would erase the feelings that i have for him, it would take time but i will fight against my heart until i've acheived my goal.
2006-09-16 18:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋