I'm a virgin and nervous about my first time......do you guys find this a turn off or would you enjoy the teaching experience? Thanks for your answers!
2006-09-16 10:54:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am all about saving it... one partner...
Since I plan on getting married as a virgin, I hope that my first time will also be her first time.
Either we'll both feel dumb together, or it'll be a great learning experience for both.
2006-09-16 10:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by MB_Bailey 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I know the guys are going to jump on this one, but I must say that I think it is best to wait until you are married. This isn't coming from a high horse, but I wanted to say from experience. Of course, there are going to be guys out there who'd enjoy deflowering a virgin, but that just may be the extent of it.
When you marry as a virgin, you have a special gift to give your partner. You can learn from each other. It also shows you have a lot of self-respect and value him and your own body.Our society sends the opposite message, but you should think about it before you follow the crowd.
2006-09-16 18:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but I felt I had to jump in here.
You are bound to be nervous but please remember there is no shame in being a virgin regardless of age and you are a virgin only once so be absolutely sure you are ready and it's going to be special.
If the guy you are thinking off having sex with is truly who you think he is then he'll understand and make it special for you.
I'm expecting a lot of your answers are going to be something like," sure honey, I wouldn't mind teaching you"So please be careful how you read the answers you are looking for.
2006-09-16 18:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by tea cup 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
enjoy the teaching experience
2006-09-16 17:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be with a girl who was a virgin than with a girl who was a pro or extremely "experienced" - do not be afraid, it won't be a turn-off, your partner will be understanding
2006-09-16 17:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no guy will expect you to be awesome in bed the first time. Virginity is not a turn off, just the opposite. Don't worry - just make sure you pick the guy carefully. Good luck!
2006-09-16 17:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Right now I'm a virgin. So, I would love to teach you what I know when it comes to sex.
2006-09-16 18:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
here from an old fox, the honest guys would be more than
perplexed how to go about it, the guys with only one side of their brains working would find it a thrill-ride.
So dont tell anybody just fall in love, or if your hormons a going haywire, go for it.
2006-09-16 17:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be turned off..I would take into account that it's her first time, and I would help her to enjoy it.
2006-09-16 17:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be a turn off, I could teach her from my experiences what to do.
2006-09-16 18:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Faust 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋