My girlfriend and I were at the mall and while she was in the restroom another girl I didn't even know came up and just started making small talk with me. I didn't want to keep talking to her because my girlfriend might misunderstand, but I didn't want to be rude and tell the girl to go away either and she just kept talking so I couldn't get a word out. Unfortunately, my girlfriend came back behind me and did misunderstand. The girl was in the process of somewhat loudly telling me that her friend wanted to ask me out.
She stormed out and now I guess she is accusing me of two-timing. I feel really bad about it and I want to apologize, but she won't return my calls or talk to me. I'm not sure how I should apologize.
2006-09-16 10:50:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really dont understand WHY it was so hard to choose your girl friend miss understanding over being rude to a girl you dont even know.....whats up with that i dont care who or what it is never ever knowingly or unknowing put some on else before your girl. (see where it gets you). anyway give her time to simmer down, you did do something wrong in her eyes, and that is HESITATION. hesitation to tell her (the other girl) to LEAVE. when she come around (if she comes around) then tell her everything leave nothing out just say im sorry
PS dont let it happen again, just preparing you for what she is going to say
2006-09-16 11:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heres what you should do
1 Go to her house and get down on your knees and tell her everything or
2 Phone her and leave a very romantic message on her answering machine telling her how much you love her or
3 Wait till she calls youi mean cmon shes mad at you she doesnt hate you. I have a policy for girls. no matter how much you run after them they will run away farther like two positive poles on a magnet but if you run the opposite way then she will get confused and she will run after you to clear her confusion. Try this man im sure it will work it always does man, Chill Out.
2006-09-16 17:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you didn't do anything wrong from what you said. However some women don't like their guys to talk to other girls. You just need to get her alone and explain it to her. The next time that happens you need to speak up and let the girl know that you are not single. Then introduce her to your girlfriend. She will understand once she calms down and you explain it to her.
2006-09-16 17:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she will not talk to you, then send her a note explaining what happened, that is all you can do. It was nothing you could do, if the girl just kept talking, she need not be so insecure, Their is no need for you to apologize, you did nothing, she just misunderstood. Tell her you hope that she can understand the position from your standpoint. that you are innocent., and you do not know the girl, so it is nothing you can do. but hope that she understands.
2006-09-16 18:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give her a minute to cool down. Most of us women base our reactions on emotion, once we've calmed down a little then we're receptive to logical communication.
1st when you speak to her make sure you re-assure her that she's the only one you are interested and then proceed to tell her what really happened.
2006-09-16 17:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth about what happened. If she still calls you a two timer then find another girlfriend. I don't believe you should have to apologise.
2006-09-16 17:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by goodbye 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her a day or two then give her Flowers and be truthful and sincere when you appoligize to her and remind of how you two first fell in love and the reasons you fell in love.
2006-09-16 17:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by steve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Sometime,when you two are alone, tell her srtait up that you dont like being rude to girls and that you onley love her and WAS NOT cheating on her! If she really loves you, she'll totally understand!!!
2006-09-16 17:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by sittinsouthernsis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to get alone with her some how and tell her what actually happend! Let her know how you really feel about her!
2006-09-16 17:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kaycee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really weren't doing anything wrong, you have nothing to apologize FOR. She does.
Just wait until she realizes it and calls you.
2006-09-16 17:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋