2006-09-16 10:39:16 · 22 answers · asked by tha_dead_prez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do men stop being sensitive and romantic when they get married?
It's only my opinion, but i think that while dating we are afraid our partner will leave us if we speak up or complain too much, but this goes both ways.
2006-09-16 10:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikaraoke 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think both the husband and wife can change through the years. Some change for the better, some for the worse. I think it's a constant matter that you have to continually work at, and each person should help each other through the years. You should never feel you "have it made", because marriage is a constant job....you never get it perfectly right. You just have to keep trying.
2006-09-16 17:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind you I am a mother and somewhat old fashioned and my observation is both sides do.Women seem to make things conditional after marriage..,i love u if you put out the trash,pick up after yourself,help me with housework,buy me things etc.Boy am I going to get some hate mail for this..,some but not all women fail to take care of men they way they need to be..,they dont want to romance after a year or so of marriage,they complain about too many things and are more selfcentered now.Great book should be every womans bible is the Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands by doctor Laura..,give it to your wife or have one of her friends give it to your wife..,one that you trust.Good luck.
2006-09-16 17:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by halfbright 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard some do. But I know I wouldn't, because I really don't see any reason to change how I act just because I'm married. And besides I'm real enough to act the same way all trhough my life, I don't change for anyone, if he can't accept it thats just too damn bad.
2006-09-16 17:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do I didnt. Some women stop performing oral sex after they get married. I didnt put up with bull$hit before I got married and I am married and don't put up with it now. My husband don't have any complaints.
If a women stops being nice after getting married it's cause she don't have a good husband and she is treated him just like he deserves. If you treat your wife like you should then you wont have any problems.
2006-09-16 17:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, women not only stop being nice but also tend to gain a bit of weight!!!
2006-09-16 17:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by caribbeanbabe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if they want a pleasant marriage! I've been married 26 years and I think every day, "What can I do to make his day?" You have to! Marriages work best when your partner is like a part of yourself and you work hard to please that person. I mean--you mess up sometimes and disagree and quarrel occasionally--but it has to be important and foremost in your mind. Marriage is hard work, but rewarding and cozy and comfortable if you work at it.
2006-09-16 17:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course they change. The only folks that say they don't are either women or metro-sexual men.
2006-09-16 17:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by Peter P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all people change! usually we stop being nice because our husbands turn into lazy bums and expect to much from us. give a little to get a little
2006-09-16 17:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by mekellygirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO, EVERY ONE IS DIFFERENT. SOME WOMEN, ARE GOOD AND SOME ARE NOT.BUT MAKE SURE YOU KNOW EVERY THING ABOUT THEM. ASK HER TO BE HONEST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP, DON`T KEEP SECRET`S FROM EACH OTHER. A RELATIONSHIP BUILT ON A LIE WILL ONLY CAUSE HEART ACHE`S.
2006-09-16 18:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by YOGIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋