ok i hate my body and i am confused why guys dont like fat girls i mean i have a great personality and i belive if u dress right and flirt like a skinny girl guys might like u is that true i need help please what can i do
2006-09-16 10:34:34 · 13 answers · asked by cierraslove 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
i'm a Mom of a bunch of girls...and i can tell you a few things...
1: you are TALL for 11...my 11 year old is 4'5"
2: your curves haven't kicked in fully yet...all that stuff in the middle will move around, up and down!...just ask my 12 year old!
3: you don't need to worry about boys right now anyway...they'll eat their hearts out later!
4: stay your silly self off the internet!
keep your head up!
2006-09-16 10:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by bigmammarush 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey, don't worry about guys right now. They can't even figure their own selves out yet. And for the stupid people here don't listen to them either. I am 5'2 and weight a 185lbs. and I have a husband and 2 kids. I am 44yrs. old When it is time you will have the right boyfriend. Pray and ask God to help you safely loose some weight. Stop drinking the soft drinks with all that sugar. Drink more water. No donuts and pastries. More veg., Do like I have been doing cut your plate back to 1/2 of what you normally eat and start walking. Your lbs. will start coming off naturally. Good luck . I will be praying for you.
2006-09-16 10:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Purple Passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you weigh more than me, and I am 14 and 5'10. Well, anyways, you have a similar situation that I know of. A girl around your age likes me, and she has the same situation as you ( fat, same height, and 12). Now I dont like her, but dont feel all down. Here are some tips. Guys like girls that care about how they look. So get on the treadmill or start walking around the neighborhood regularly. Eat less or healthier food. As for that little theory that you have, WRONG. Guys like girls that look pretty, not that are fat. What you should be worried about now is school and not about guys little girl. Wait one more year ( or as soon as you lose 30 lbs )
2006-09-16 11:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by PDZ 247 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey don't be worried about if guys like you or not. at your age the guys are all stupid and it doesn't get much better as they get older. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 13. I was much like you a fal little girlbut i just stayed myself and eventually I found a nice guy to go out with. and don't forget to not only look at the popular guys but the fat boys are thinking the same thing as you. why don't the girls like me. Just hang in there you will find a guy that likes you for who you are inside and out. and remeber that when you get older the skinny girls will be the first to get pregnant and fat!!!!! Just wait and see.
2006-09-16 10:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel i was once in your shoe when i was your age guys can mean i don't know why just keep your head up i know it is very hard and i understand what u are growing threw and if they don't like who are then forget about them . it is all about what u have inside and not the outside am sure u have a wounderful personality just reamber u are a great person and a great girl k stay strong k take care tammi
2006-09-16 10:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by tammislade 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some skinny guys like that, but most do not. Most are attractive to slim, curvy gals.
2006-09-16 10:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Mypyramid.com
2006-09-16 10:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by Golden Ivy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats no true my brother only goes out with girls that have more to love
2006-09-16 11:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by jenyabreu06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until your older guys dont care
2006-09-16 10:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by zerocoo92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be normal and ask questions that you might get a clue if they like you or not
2006-09-16 10:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by Flower_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋