I generally don't date women with kids, as I have none. She is 29 and I am 26, any advice?
2006-09-16 10:26:42 · 12 answers · asked by silverblack12345 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a package deal. You either like package or you don't.
2006-09-16 10:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you are unwilling to be in a relationship with someone else who has kids as a general rule, then it's not in your best interests for you to enter into this one. I will assume that there is a reason you don't wish to be involved with children at this stage in your life, which is absolutely fine. No one should guilt you into thinking that you should be "responsible" or "adult" since in the long run you may find your relationship strained due to her commit to her children. Being on the recieving end of people dating my parents when I was younger, I can tell you that if the partner without kids doesn't wish to be involved with the children it only hurts everyone involved. Also don't think that you can "comprimise" with her to have a relationship with her without eventually ending up being in some parenting role with her kids. Any woman with children is inevitably looking for a partner not only for herself but someone suitable to look after her children. So negotiating them out of the picture isn't an option.
My advice summed up : move on from this. This obviously isn't a situation you're comfortable with, and you shouldn't have to comprimise your own feelings just for the sake of starting a relationship.
2006-09-16 17:32:19 · answer #2 · answered by Maxx Power 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a package deal boo. Take her or leave her, the kids aren't gonna dissapear. I understand tho cuz I don't have kids and would rather not date someone with small kids. But if I absolutely am diggin the guy, then I can definitely overlook the kid thing.
2006-09-16 17:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by jobs1012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really up to u if u want a women with kid but if u really like her u would make that stop u
2006-09-16 17:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think god my step dad did. he was the best thing that happened to my mother and her 4 kids. they was married for 27 years. they have both past on now and we all miss them very much. the only reason im using the word step dad is because of the question. the word step anything was never used in my home. he was my dad and i was his daughter....................so i say if you love her then you owe it to your self to give it a try..........
2006-09-16 17:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ff her till u get married. till then date girls of your age group w/o kids.
buying chocolates for four kids and changing their nappies will be too much for you boy man.
2006-09-16 17:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by kamesvari i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids come w/ her package so no kids no woman your choice
2006-09-16 17:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by wilkinson_1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her i say give it a chance.
2006-09-16 17:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Otis is correct, you like them all or forget it.
2006-09-16 17:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tap that asssssssssssssss
2006-09-16 17:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by big daddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋