i have been dating this guy for about 6 months. he is amazing! super nice, and caring, and just overall the best i could ask for. the only problem is that when ever we are 'gettin busy' he gets nervous and his penis gets limp. he is a virgin and i'm not. i just feel like anything i do doesnt help, i dont know why get gets nervous, i ask and he replys with "i dont know". is there anything i could do that will help him over this?
2006-09-16 10:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by gymgirl33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, try slowing down... he may need to be more relaxed.. try tracing your fingers around his body, slowly kissing him all over, and using your mouth on him.. i know this seems strange.. but a lot of men need fondling before sex too!
2006-09-16 10:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by cheer8ko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Gymgirl, Yes this could be a big problem.Have you try to relax him by rubbing is back slowly,And rubbing his private area and kissing and licking there to.This should help both of you alot.He needs to stop thinking soooo hard about doing it right this will come in time.You need to explain this to him,and maybe it will lift the pressure some.Work together on the problem,and things should work out find.Have a good life together. A Friend
Clowmy
2006-09-16 17:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he gets nervous because he is a virgin and your not. guys feel like they have to impress you in bed. just take things slowly with him and make sure he is ready sorry but thats all i can suggest
2006-09-16 17:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try different things, and if he's having ED there's medication out there to keep him, um, erect. Just take it slow, and easy. Good Luck ~~~
2006-09-16 17:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a BJ and see if that helps. You need to relax him.
2006-09-16 17:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by the_saint1963 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See doctor get viagra .... he is lucky to have someone understanding ....
2006-09-16 17:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him,teach him,guide him & damn most of all tease him
2006-09-16 17:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.
2006-09-16 17:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hehe he is wat? LimpBiscuit? Hehe LMFAO!
2006-09-16 17:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋