I have known this man for one year. Recently, we decided we wanted to start dating. Have we reached the point where we are boyfriend and girlfriend? We haven't had sex yet during this time. We have just kissed and hugged.
Is there a point where you start dating that you know that things are getting serious? If a relationship does get serious, could it possibly lead to marriage?
2006-09-16 10:25:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi. Yes on both counts. You will start to feel very relaxed in his presence. Your conversations will seem more natural. You will experience a sense of longing for him. You will increasingly think about what it would be like to live with him. However, you never want to hurry or talk yourself into anything. And sex is an important issue. Be honest with yourself. You are worth the wait. You are special and there is no hurry. Pace yourself and let what will be, be.
2006-09-16 10:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you don't get hurt. Usually with guys it's about sex only. Once they get to sleep with women they realize they don't love them anymore (in most cases). Sex should be carried out at a point where you both know you would eventually be together. If not, it is just meaningless. A relationship can last without sex for some time. And in my opinion, in that SOME time, you get sure about marrying the other person, or not. Best of luck!
2006-09-16 17:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Harry thePotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is one of the most important things in a realtioship. Those are questions that you have to talk about with him. Ask him where is this leading to?? He could answer it better than anyone else can..
Any serious realationship could lead to marriage, but you gotta work at it. And both of you have to put your part into the realtionship to really make it work.
2006-09-16 17:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by laural8477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is getting serious now . you went from knowing each other to dating. and being b'f/gf yes you are headed in that direction. and marriage is very possible. i hope you know when you have sex that you are having sex if you don't know if getting serious can lead to marriage.
2006-09-16 17:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you ***** him before marriage? Wow you must really want this relationship to go down hill.
If he loves you and you love him have sex AFTER marriage. So many ppl bought into the media bullshit that its okay and normal to have sex before marriage. That why so ppl, women esp. are single moms, they were promised marriage, spread their legs, had sex, got pregnant and the guy ran off.
If you waited this long, why not wait until after you guys are married?
2006-09-16 17:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would have a sit down and have a "where's this realationship going" talk. Be blunt, and honest about your feelings, and also be open to his feelings. Any realationship has the potental to lead to marriage. Although my theory is, that when you meet that special someone you just know it. Hope this helps,
Lilth
2006-09-16 17:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Little_Lilth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for most people dating will lead to marriage unless you figure out how to stop it.
2006-09-16 18:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to know, ask!!! Also, don't think that sex makes a commitment- it doesn't. The best thing to do is ask him how he feels-he's the only one that can tell you.
2006-09-16 17:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by justfeelingfroggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person and yourself...and how you feel. Make sure you don't listen idiots on here
2006-09-16 17:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋