Homecoming problems!!! help me asap plz! see details?

Question

Hey all,
so i have a bf who i've been seing for 5 mo. we are both 17 in case u are wondering. a few days a go he asked me to homecoming. well one of our mutual friends decided to go with us as well...without even asking if this was okay. The problem is, she jjust recently broke up with her bf and she has been really clingy and touchy feely with mine. Her excuse is that he is her best freind and she is just getting closer because she ditched him and her other friends when she was in a relationship. So now she will be a third wheel in our homecoming group becuz everyone we aere going with is a couple and she will probably tag along wherever my bf goes. She is really ggettting on my nerves but i don'[t want to say nethign because my bf is really good freidnds with her and maybe i am just being too possesive but this will be my first homecoming wtih him and i don'[t want to worry about here. what shoudl i say or do in this situations without neone's feelings getting hurt and without ..

me having to worry about her. We have already tried to find a guy to take her but to no avail...plz help!!!

Answer 1

You need to tell your bf how you feel. Tell him in a non threatening way. Like telling him how you want this to be a great night for you guys, and tell him that you feel a little threatened by her. There is nothing wrong with being honest as long as you don't make him feel like you are putting him or your friend down. If he gets defensive then maybe he's not the one. I mean your feelings should come before hers.

Answer 2

You need to talk to your b/f, explain how you know she is a good friend of his and you do trust him, but that her recent clingy, touchy-feely behaviour makes you very uncomfortable. Also that this is homecoming and is supposed to be about you and him and ask if she can either be left out of it or perhaps go with you for awhile but then have him enforce her separating to give you the rest of the evening alone.

Answer 3

You should be a good friend and let her come with you. Your relationship should be strong enough to overcome such an encounter. She is evidently insecure and needs your support - that is the line you should take with your boyfriend.

Answer 4

I think you sould just flat out tell your friend that it's your first homecoming and you want to spend it only with your bf

Answer 5

This is a mean way to resolve this but if your desperate you can make her sick - like get a person who has a cold and somehow get her sick too.

Answer 6

i would try to focus on him, and not worry about her... that's how it works, ya know? i understand you don't want to hurt her... but come on, that's what she's trying to do to you. it's your night, have fun!

Answer 7

No.