My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and have sex constantly, but lately, for the past couple months he's having a hard time getting me to "climax". Don't get me wrong he's GOOD at what he does and we have so much fun but I just don't a "catch one". Is it me??? HELP!!!
2006-09-16 09:48:22 · 12 answers · asked by way2clase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it possible that your relationship is about more than sex now? If your relationship has grown and you find more to like about him than his horizontal performance, it is possible that it could diffuse your sexual response. Sex is nothing more than another way to have a conversation, and the intensity comes and goes in sex for most women as the communication builds in other areas.
That's a good thing.
Just relax, and learn to know him as a whole person. You will find that your relationship grows and changes in many ways. If you instead focus on this and go spastic about it, you can rush the relationship out of existence, and never get to know anyone until you're willing to let it grow naturally.
2006-09-16 09:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it's you
science you said he doing all the same things he was doing before
your just getting bored try to introduce some new things and see what happens
let him know this; he may be hurt at first but he will definitely be up for grabs to rekindle the situation
make sure that he understands that it has nothing to do with him you just need things to be spiced up abit more
if not you will definitely soon start looking else where to feel the pleasure
2006-09-16 16:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the Oxygen channel they had a sex therapist, and a woman called in with the same problem. The therapist said to try new things like foreplay, toys or simply master bate while he is making love to you.
2006-09-16 16:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by clueless_idiot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was going thru the same thing, i guess you get used to the same sex after a while, you should try something new and exciting
2006-09-16 16:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by jeh0387 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually yes it is you. the more you do it the harder it becomes to climax...so without realizing it your expectations have gone up a lot.
2006-09-16 16:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by alexwhlr3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's happened to me, to. I don't know why, though. I just didn't hit the big "o" anymore.
2006-09-16 16:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Israely Jew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to relax more -- stress ( from work, pressure from others ) will do that to you again relax
2006-09-16 16:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't love him anymore???
2006-09-16 16:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by rdf70_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a pillow under your but,its you.
2006-09-16 16:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he changed anything... maybe u have... maybe its not there any more???
2006-09-16 16:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by FoB_NoZ_hIs_S*** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋