My boyfriend and i been going out for a year and two mouths. I think he's cheating on me. This girl called my boyfriend on his cell twice when i'm always around. And my boyfriend is always late. when he was suppose to come over to hang out . I told him I didn't like when his friends as girls call him. I told him that to tell them not to call him anymore and I ask him , if he's cheating on me. But he says he's not. We plan to get married after colllege and start a familey . I love him with all my heart. but i'm afriad to get hurt agian. I want to beilve him ,but i got cheated on so many times. please help me out. Thanks .
2006-09-16 09:48:11 · 16 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know exactly how you feel. you just have to try and trust him. it will be hard, but trust is very important. in my experience, i was always jealous when it came to my boyfriend. after a year and 8 months of being together, i found out he cheated on me. but we did get passed it and now were really happy. i'm not saying he's cheating on you, but if he is, prepare yourself. try trusting him. if he says he's not doing anything, believe him.
2006-09-16 10:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Damon ♥ Elena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I really hope he's telling the truth especially that you are thinking of getting married and starting a family. If you're still in doubt that he's not telling the truth, talk to him again, explain to him that you don't want to go through the same dilemma again. Maybe you can also trick him in telling the truth. Either way, time will prove but if you have so much doubt and don't trust him, maybe you should wait much longer before you get married. Just to avoid a heartbreak. Good luck!
2006-09-16 16:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by FairyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont make the mistake my gf did eh... dont get mixed up... be sure ok thats the only way... take the number maybe u talk... dont just jump to an idiotic conclusion cause ur gut tells u to ok... thats like shutting him down and pushing to someone else and helping him want to be with someone else alittle more understanding... even if they arent they r just emotionally there... Men are simple creatures I even admit that and three quarters of the day have one thing on there mind... but what kinda guy u are depends on what that is lol... trust him until u cant...
2006-09-16 16:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by FoB_NoZ_hIs_S*** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont expect him to b like other guys coz u've been cheated on already... u got 2 choices u can follow him around, check his fone and ting and do all that crazy stuff or u can trust him... make the rite choice... a year and two months is alot to throw away
2006-09-16 16:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you got cheated on so many other times-- why are you even considering marriage dump him and find your true love because it sounds like this isn't it-- and besides if he is doing now what makes you think he's not going to do it just because he's married to you
2006-09-16 17:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never mind whether he's cheating or not... why on Earth are you getting married right after college?
Why not take a few years and enjoy being yourself instead of being one half of a statistically doomed marriage?
2006-09-16 16:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you and wants to help you relationship, he wil not answer the calls from those girls while he os with you. If he wont stop, then hes not serious. Your decision from there!
2006-09-16 16:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm sounds like a player, do it back to him. If you dont trust him you should leave him, what is a relationship without trust! your to young to be stressing over shi* like this,if you dont make a decision now it will make you crazy. I would hat to see a smile turn to a frown!
2006-09-16 16:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok has he been friends with these girls before u met??? if so have they ever done anything? if not then dont worry....if he's cheated on u before then i would worry a lot and maybe u should leave.
2006-09-16 17:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a dectivite like on the maury show
2006-09-16 16:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋