i hated my first time
i was 14 i was pressured to do it by an older guy
and i was wondering if as many people regret their first time?
2006-09-16 09:44:32 · 24 answers · asked by brazilianbeauty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't exactly regret my first time, I just wish it had been different. I kind of pressured myself into doing it, and now I really wish I had waited for someone better. I don't regret it that much, though. I did love him at the time, and now I have experience and knowledge that I didn't have before. I guess I both regret it an don't regret it. It means a lot less to me than it used to, though. You kind of get over it as time passes.
2006-09-16 09:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Israely Jew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did but I was madly in love with him,,The secret is love...There is the sex act itself...And there is love making...Alot of younger people don't get that...They just think the sex act means the guy loves you...Not true and as soon as young girls realize that the better off they'll be..If this guy forced you then that is called rape...If not then don't ever let someone pressure u into doing something with your body that u don't want to do..Your not being good to yourself if u keep doing this..You deserve to have someone make love to u that in return u love too..I hope u find him.
2006-09-16 16:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time was a semi-drunken fumble in the back of my car ... not a success!
I'd love to have the chance to do it all again ... and still know what I know now!
I don't regret the first time but I wish maybe that we'd had a bed handy!
2006-09-16 16:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never let anyone pressure you into that. No wonder you hated it. It should only happen when you choose for it to happen. You need to say no and mean it, wait until you're ready. It will be much better then.
2006-09-16 16:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by heynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont regret it, but it was horrible, i had no idea what i was doing, and worse off i went down on her thinking that is what all girls like, and i again had no idea what the hell i was doing down there, from start to finsh a whole 5 or 10 min..
2006-09-16 16:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by todd w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the time I'm sure I was happy to be losing my virginity but looking back it wasn't really the time, I should have waited. That guy was an effing prick.
2006-09-16 16:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the first time was great and no regrets.
2006-09-16 16:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my verginity to my first wife. Her parents walked in on us. So my experience wasn't that good. After all, we got divorced. And that was a very good thing. I wish I had waited and lost it to my second wife and just skipped the first one.
2006-09-16 16:47:23 · answer #8 · answered by Adventures of Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lost my virginity when i was 18. i'm 20 now. i'm still with the guy, so i don't regret doing it with him, but i do regret doing it when we did. i just met him and we slept together right away. i wish we would have waited longer. but we're still together, so it's all good.
2006-09-16 16:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by Damon ♥ Elena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I picked the right guy. He was a sweetheart and he loved me. But we were both clueless virgins and so, no, I did not enjoy it. :) But I'm glad that I can be proud of the person I picked.
2006-09-16 17:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋