Which is best way to propose? (In My Case) (Girls plz answer)?

Question

I love a girl since last 4 yrs. We were together in English speaking class. We have never met. I want to propose her.
I planned to phone. then planned to post letter to her home address with my photo.
Now I am thinking to-
-create new email account on her name
-send a proposing email with my photo to that new email address.
-Post a letter to her home address with new email account, password and request her to go near cyber cafe and check that email account.
(Will she go and check email? Will She answer?)

I will be grateful if GIRLS answer.

Answer 1

I'm a girl... and no offense, but I would be freaked out if a guy I never met proposed to me. I wouldn't take it seriously.

If u feel u love her then go and meet her, then if she feels the same way then propose (in person!)

Answer 2

Hi, I guess that perhaps you mean that you've never talked together? Or perhaps that you've never met up socially?s if you were in the same class you must have met. I think that the idea you have suggested is not really a great one. You need to find some way to get to meet her in person even if it is with other friends and not alone. You should begin by getting to know her a little bit and making her feel comfortable with you so that you wont scare her when you tell her how you feel.Ask her alot of things about herself, let her do the talking and make her feel special. Then hopefully if she feels the same for you when you propose to her you will get the answer your heart desires. Good luck.

Answer 3

In any culture, it is customary to meet the person before proposing marriage.

Do you think you might propose a meeting as a first step? If you agree, then your plan of sending a photo and your name and phone number is a good idea.

It may be good to call her and suggest a date for coffee in the afternoon, just to talk a little. You can suggest maybe practicing your English, or talking about places in the world to visit. After you meet with her three or four times, you might begin to tell her a little bit about how you feel about her.

Answer 4

God, no don't do any of it.
If a boy or man, would to create a new email in my name, I don't care what the reason behind it. I would not trust this person ever, much less except a proposal for marriage.
You have never met, right?
This is a difficult situation without going through a bunch of questions.
I would simply say it "I have loved you from the first day I saw you in our English class and I have wanted to marry you ever sense."
Wait for her answer and go from there.

Answer 5

You've never met???? In that case, I would think you should meet first before taking that step. I'm not sure how this female is, but in my opinion, I don't know anyone that would truly get married to someone they've never met. But I guess to answer your question. You need to do something romantic, something she'll never forget. Maybe you could send her flowers have them delivered by the shop but also be there when she gets them. Use your imagination and make the moment special.

Answer 6

You should get to know her first. Ask her out for coffee or lunch. Then you can spend a couple of hours with her and find out if she loves you as much as you love her!

If the feelings are mutual, then you should spend some time dating before deciding on marriage. A year is a good amount of time.

This could save you from the heartbreak of rejection!

Answer 7

I could tell you some very cute ways, but I want to know if you have never met, why do you want to propose? How do you know your true feelings if you have never spent any time with her?

I would personally run or back away from someone asking me to marry them when I had not met them.

I would try to meet them and get to know them in person if I were you.

Answer 8

You need to get to know her first. Ask her on a date. Ask her in person, if at all possible.

It is dangerous for a female to just accept the advances from a stranger. Even if *your* best intentions are honorable, she will not know that if you haven't even started a conversation with her. Most likely, she will not respond to you if you don't even talk to her and try to do this in mail or email.

Try to be friends first, in person. Then, see what happens.

Answer 9

only your heart start beating but the mind refuses to work. everything else other than the one you love will not seems to be important. the love what you call is just a FEELING. we feel hungry to eat, we feel thirsty to drink, etc love is also like a feeling. it is a temporary exhilaration. every man/women will under go 2 stages in cyclic manner(once in 3 or 4 months) emotional high stage(EHS) emotional low stage(ELS) when both the partners are in EHS they feel like they are in love. both will try to keep the love going by building a castle on feelings. after some time when they are in ELS they feel like not loving each other. it is called as "trapped syndrome" so why to FALL in love like falling in to a pit? instead of it why can't we GREW in love? true love is Commitment , will to stay togather AFTER MARRIAGE

Answer 10

truthfully do not assemble each and every of the troops and function them latest once you ask! it really is a private second for both of you. in case you want to score more effective brownie factors which includes her dad, regardless of the reality that, ask his permission to ask her. It would not provide up you if he stated no, yet he will dig that your asking him first. A balloon journey might want to be cool, or any romantic putting might want to artwork. the position you went on your first date might want to be cool, too. My fiance in basic terms requested me sitting at the front room settee. He did not even upward push up and do the kneeling difficulty. He might want to have in basic terms been asking me to bypass the popcorn! not what I had develop into hoping for in a theory, enable me allow you to recognize! Yeah, I stated certain, reason i appreciate him. in spite of the undeniable fact that, i develop into upset with the idea. I had theory he develop into extra romantic than that. Make it romantic, and something you and he or she will be in a position to prefer to inform the grandchildren about! My first husband requested me lower than the mistletoe on Christmas Eve. it really is a narrative my childrens have heard many circumstances. It develop into so romantic!