Early days, he conveyed that his taste in girls is completely opposite of me, he likes girls who are NOT like me at all. Me & him also opposite
If i ever somehow implied that we were behaving like an old married couple (which in my opinion we still do) he'd make fun and say things like "not in a milion years"
But now, he "jokes" about with me and brings up being "together" himself, like physically and intimately being together - i just try to shrug it off.
Like yesterday he told me to "keep the bed warm for me" - isnt that flirting?
And another time, he was talking about how he wants me to come and look after him because he's ill, and how he'd take care of me if i was ill.....o.O or even cook for him. This isnt normal is it?!
Been friends for 8 months, quite close
He talks about other girls to me, "fit" girls who are potential love interests, teases me and makes fun of me most times, argues with me over the most stupidest things, talks to me when online EVERY time..
2006-09-16 09:39:53 · 19 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im starting to think he's gay too LOL!!
2006-09-16 09:44:44 · update #1
He probably really wants to be with you. it sounds like he really likes you as a ahuman being but you might be too fat or not good looking enough. Lose some weight or something.
2006-09-16 09:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by kmankman4321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and smell the coffee - he is basically saying if you put it on a plate for him he'll not say no BUT read the signs - he is still very much interested in other girls and gets a kick out of niggling you about it.
If he wanted something exclusive with you he would have told you by now and not just playfully flirted - as it is he can take you or leave you..
2 choices then - put out and see that I am right OR make it clear to him that you would not sleep with him if he was the last man on earth - be aware that the latter strategy will mean that you are a challenge and he will attempt to notch you up even more - resist - unfortunately hon - for most men animal, mineral, vegetable - makes no difference he'd s**g it.
2006-09-16 09:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh, difficult one for sure. Sounds like this guy started off as friends and has fallen for you. Very classic and happens a lot. The constant teasing and need for you to be there signs that's he's trying to get your attention or promote a response as well as being satisfied that you value you him to a higher extent than you do other guys.
If you really want to know for sure gently drop some hints that you met a guy last night and you really really like him. Notice his response, if he likes you then there will be subtle differences in the way he reacts to this 'good news'. For example, if he didn't like you in that way he may be really interested to hear all about him, what his name is where he comes from etc. If he likes you then this need to find out is much less pronounced since he would rather not be reminded of him. Infact he may not bring the other guy up much and may be slightly aggresive towards the notion of him. He may also try even harder for you to notice him so expect more 'needy' stuff. Other good questions to ask would be "should i ring him?", 'he's asked me out, what do you think i should wear", "what happens if he wants to have sex?" (that's a good one!).
Anyway, let us know yeah!
2006-09-16 09:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Joe_Floggs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does fancy you.
He was too shy in the beginning to flirt with you and told you he fancied other types and shrugged off things like the married couple bit because really he fancied you like hell but wasnt sure if you would reciprocate.
He tried to make you feel like he wasn't hanging around with you because he fancied you.
As your friendship progressed he has seen that your flirting wasn't just fun and innocent and now is trying to show you that he feels the same.
Obviously he's shy and afraid to make the first move so ask him out asap!
If you're still unsure, ask him out for dinner but say it's for something like 'you fancy a change to your normal going out routine' and let him choose the restaurant feel free to make some romantic suggestions and if he chooses an impressive (expensive/romantic/secluded/not the usual) one then you can be fairly certain he wants it to be a special meal.
Don't be put off if he if he says no - because you only asked for dinner as mates - in which case talk to his best mate and just ask if he has mentioned if he likes you; or just get some dutch courage one night and get him by himself and make a move!
Good luck - sounds fairly certain that he does like you so just go for it!
2006-09-16 23:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course he fancies you.
All the opposite thing is a excuse for why he hasn't picked up courage to actually ask you out.
Get it sorted girl and make a move.
2006-09-16 09:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you're out, stop at a secluded place. Take off your bra and shirt. See what happens. If he's "What the hell you doing?" then he ain't interested. If he goes for your boobs, he's just about the sex. If he takes you in his arms for a long hot romantic kiss you'll be kicking yourself in the a** for not doing this sooner.
God gave you them puppies, now go and use them.
2006-09-16 10:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Chronic Observer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh dang i thought u 2 were already together lol... dont worry... I think ur the one with the power in ur hands now ok... its ur decision pick him up or put him down but perhaps do it quick
2006-09-16 09:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by FoB_NoZ_hIs_S*** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats not flirting then i dont know what is! its obvious 2 me that he,s intrested in u & he,s just checking out ur reaction when he,s talking about fit girls. if he,s not intrested then ur very close mates! & if he is gay at least u can go out 2gether & check out guys lol
2006-09-16 11:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Common misconception I think: Women have male Platonic friends. Men have women they haven't f*cked yet. Get on with it, then you will know for sure.
Also don't listen too much to what he says, listen to what he DOES around you; Men try (badly most of time) to hide true feelings and keep everyone around them in dark about their true intention!
If he is your 'friend', he is into you.....go for it if you like him too.
2006-09-16 09:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he does fancy you but can't express his feelings very well.
Maybe you could coax it out of him by dressing sexily and giving him all the signals that you fancy him!
2006-09-16 09:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋