We've been friends for almost at year, and I've liked him for most of it. I really, really like him and I don't want to lose our friendship, but I can't stop thinking about him, I know I love him. What should I do, ask him out, or keep my feelings a secret??? I think he likes me back, but I'm not sure. He talks to me constantly, and when I told him about my ex and he started bashing him and he got really jealous, and I was like "you're just jealous" and he was like you know it" I really really like him and any help would be really great!!
2006-09-16 09:18:04 · 16 answers · asked by whitexlotus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok no offence but i doubt you LOVE him, you just really really really really really like him. i know how it is, i was like that with a few of the people i liked. I thought i loved them but it was totally not a strong enough feeling to be love.
if you are willing to ask him and have enough confidence then go for it, but if you are still not quite sure, then let it play out. Sometimes what i do is talk to a good friend (his name will be Joe) of the guy i like (lets just call him Bob) and who is also good friends with me and ask Joe if Bob has told him that he likes me.
it does kind of seem like he likes you, but here are a few ways to tell if he likes someone (maybe you)
1) he is dressing better
2) his hair looks better
3) he smells better
4) he looks (or stares) at you a lot
5) he talks to you a lot
i hope i helped Good luck
2006-09-16 09:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetie Pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in that situation recently. except that our friendship is over. but that's another story.
i don't know if this will help but there's a big risk involved here so be careful (that is if you have been friends for a very long time). maybe you can investigate on your own, ask his other friends if he likes someone right now or you can ask him that yourself.
let's face it, guys are hard to read sometimes. as if they speak a different language or something.
2006-09-16 16:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by cara_hermosa 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
somebody said cuddle him and I completely agree. I had a huuuge crush on my girl (who used to be just a friend) one night we were both lying in a hammock outside my house, just talking, and we began to cuddle a bit, and I kissed her. We have been dating ever since (more than a year now) and I love her to death.
2006-09-16 16:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same problem and if i was u i would tell him and say if u dont like me thats alright and tell him that when u see him with another girl u get all sad and mad and if he stops talkin to u then what friend was he cause bestfriends are supose to be open with eachother about everything trust me my bff is a boy to
2006-09-16 16:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He may just be nervous about asking you out on a date. So why not ask yourself? Or hint at it. Get him to ask you on a date.
2006-09-16 16:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow-X 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight up how he feels about u. I'm thinking that he's not ready but try! Maybe one night out of no where he'll kiss u.
2006-09-16 16:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats a toughie! Well that sound like me and my guy friend. I think it would be awkward for you 2 to go out, especially if he doesn't like you back! I say wait for him to make a move!(GOOD LUCK!)
2006-09-16 16:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by emilyy:) 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him out
2006-09-16 16:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sabrina G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, it might change the relationship, but all the better. I did it and it's not horrible or anything, now we're closer.
2006-09-16 16:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it girl if you don't you'll always ask yourself what if. and then you start to regret. grab the bull by the horn and take control of the situation
2006-09-16 16:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋