I think this girl, but she is like one of my best girlfriends and if I tell her I think our friendship would be ruined because I'm NOT gay and I know she's not gay. I mean I have nothing against gay people, but I can't be gay it is just not the person I am......PLEASE HELP ME I'M SO CONFUSED!!!
2006-09-16 09:02:22 · 16 answers · asked by Kay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean if you like someone then you can't help it. Most of those feeling are just a stage in your life. I was like that when I was about 13-15. I dated one of my best (girl) friends for about a year. And everyone was fine with it, because I was bisexual (liking girls and guys) But then I moved on, and we broke up, and I started liking guys again. Now I am with the man that I am going to marry, and I love him to death. I cant even imagine being with a girl again!!!!!
2006-09-16 09:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by TayNuz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For all girls there is a time in your life if when you wonder of your a les or bi, your probably going through this right now. This feeling might pass, but if it doesn't you should tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't still want to be your friend because of the way you are, then she isn't a very good friend.
2006-09-16 09:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not confused. just feeling that way. i wouldn't worry about it so much.
i would tend to think that you have found a friend that you really enjoy spending time with. you relate well to her and that is that. you two will probably end up being friends for a very long time, as you go through boyfriend after boyfriend! :-)
2006-09-16 09:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens to most people, like when i was in high school i liked this girl alot and i thought she was soooo pretty and perfect but it didnt mean i was gay. sometimes we just find people that are intresting and fun and we want to be with them and learn about them( like a rolmodel) but it does'nt mean we dont like boys or we are gay.
2006-09-16 09:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you like her? Just beacuse you really like someone does not make you gay. Does she get you excited...hot when you are with her? You need to ask yourself why you like her so much....You can probably answer your own question!
2006-09-16 09:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have secret feelings for her but your still in denial. i understand your confused but you might de bisexual not gay. get you feelings strait because if you don't have your feelings strait you will never know if those feelings you have for her are gayish or you just like her in a non gay way.
2006-09-16 09:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly natural to be drawn to a person you are close friends with and it does not necessarily mean you have homosexual tendencies. Don't stress it. You are very normal.
2006-09-16 09:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am just like u. i like one of my bestfriend too. but, i like men better. have u liked any guy since u like your girlfriend? if it is yes, then your are not a gay. what about your girlfriend? have she told u she liked a guy yet?
you should probably ask her about her boyfriend
2006-09-16 09:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itz prolly just a phase you are going through, give it some time to pass.
2006-09-16 09:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r gay srry
2006-09-16 09:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋