What's going on when you tell your girl one day that she is amazing, and all you need, you want her forever, then the next day, act all strange like you're not that into her? Are you just dealing with the strength of your emotions, or what? In other words, what feelings could make your words and actions so contradictory?
2006-09-16 08:58:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I say something such as you presented, I always meant what I said. But I think this "two-faced" behavior can be reflected as the guy doesn't want to make himself seem clingy, desperate, and dependent. Since he give you so much credit yesterday he'll think maybe you are going to get all big-headed so the next day he's gotta play his cards right, or in another words, play hard to get and put on this indifferent vibe so you don't just kick him away because you are starting to think you are better than him now.
It's that simple. The guy doesn't want to get hurt, but he loves you and thinks you are amazing at the same time. It's a self-preservation technique.
2006-09-16 09:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting someone know that they are amazing, and that they are all you need can only be done with actions. Words are nice, but they really don't mean anything. If this guy is telling you but not showing you, then either he's lying or he simply doesn't know how to treat a woman.
Ask yourself this - If you finally decide it is the latter, do you want to take on the job of teaching him?
2006-09-16 16:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from personal experience, I sometimes say things and then feel that I may have exposed too much of how I feel. Leaving myself feeling vulnerable and able to be taken advantage of. At that time I have to "act" as though I didn't really mean it. In a lame attempt to regain the ground I may have lost in saying such things. Really it's trust issues in my case. Yours may be different.
2006-09-16 16:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by gklein99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well
When Guys Say Good words
They mean it
Well to be Honest
Sometimes Our action do not really mean what inside us
because we sometimes ruff
2006-09-16 16:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by Momomada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men are torn between the guys hanging out and being with the one they like or even love. also we are a strange animal (men) as it is, we are terribley simple creatures and if there is an outside influence then we will probbly bend.
2006-09-16 16:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by todd w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sometime we say words and the opposite 360 degree the next day
2006-09-16 16:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because women are so self centered that men must focus their energy on making the female "self" feel special. Once it feels special, then women are willing to give men what they want.
Of course, women complain that this is self-serving (and duplicitous) on the part of men. But really, isn't the crap that women do just as self-serving (and duplicitous?)
2006-09-16 16:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by *I CURED My Yellow Teeth* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is called sucking up. We always exaggerate what we say because girls love it.
2006-09-16 16:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by 120 IQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called false advertising.
And females do it to.
2006-09-16 16:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to give IT to him so often so he will be hungry for IT and he will keep saying what you want to hear!!
2006-09-16 16:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by dnm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋