2006-09-16 08:53:45 · 20 answers · asked by stargazer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There are a total of four kids? Im trying to find something on the web about what type of mental deficency would cause this I am taking care of them right now and I already have six of my own these are kids are my nephews. My brother works so the main responsibilty is on me
2006-09-16 09:00:53 · update #1
The only resentment towards her is the obvious hard work I am now faced with by no choice of my own other than that she is a sister to me and I love her and am concerned about her.
2006-09-16 09:03:32 · update #2
Kayboff that is spooky her mom always left her and her sibs and also was eventually killed in automobile accident that she witnessed at the age of 10 I was wondering if this tragic event played a part of her doings . Like I said I love my sister in law she is a beautiful person I am just overwhelmed with this responsiblity.
2006-09-16 09:11:37 · update #3
Make Dua (prayer) for her to realise she was once a child and she needs to look after her children Insha'ALLAH. I hope everything gets better for everyone in this kind of situation. The parent may need to seek medical treatment also as there may be some kind of underlying issue for example depression, sickness, insanity etc...
2006-09-16 08:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Possibly, she can't live with the children's Father,and she feels she can't support them.
She could be suffering from depression.
Strange you should ask. My Mom left us several times before she was killed in an automobile accident in 1957.
My Aunt and I were just having this conversation last night, wondering, what would make a Mother leave her children.
2006-09-16 09:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may have been the best thing she could have done for them...since you didn't give any details it's hard to say. Did she leave them with family or friends that love and care for them, or just dump them to the state? Is it temporary or permanent arrangement? If a parent loves their children, sometimes the most difficult, and most loving thing they can do is give them up. Try not to judge too harshly until you know her reasons, if you do not know already. Take care.
2006-09-16 09:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have tried maximum of issues that have not worked... i've got fun with your perseverance. the 1st ingredient you should do is get him off the medicine and alcohol. positioned him in rehab. while he gets out, that's an entire new international of supervision and self-discipline. Do you have a brother or cousin who ought to grant solid male management for him? or maybe a pal out of your church? single mothers pick help to boost their little ones. Supervision, supervision, supervision! in case you won't be in a position to be there 24/7, make some arrangements so as that there is somebody to video reveal him. Is he in contact in any activities or workouts? He desires an outlet for his capability. self-discipline, self-discipline, self-discipline! What are the outcomes while he behaves violently? while he cusses at you or all people else? do away with each and everything from his room different than the mattress. while he misbehaves, he is going to his room. If he places a hollow interior the wall, make him patch it and paint it. repeatedly returned if needed. i in my view think of ADHD & bipolar are over-clinically determined and the medicine they use to regulate those ailments are actually not efficient in any respect on sufferers who do not probable have the ailment. have you ever regarded into option medicine? Has he been examined for hypersensitive reactions and nutrition sensitivites? Oppositional defiant ailment is in hassle-free terms a fancy call for asserting that your infant does not understand authority. it is not an ailment and can't be taken care of with medicine. Counseling a 13 year previous in hassle-free terms facilitates if the child is cooperative. Yours isn't. you could ought to positioned your guy or woman training on carry till you get this boy decrease than administration. i visit repeat. commence with rehab...as quickly as he's off the medicine and acohol, deliver him homestead to a international with consistent supervision and fairly some self-discipline. seek for help with this...you could not do it on my own. solid success.
2016-10-15 01:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask my ex-wife. She walked out on our three ages 11, 8, 5. Decided there was more she wanted to do in life. By the way, she is a "good" Catholic.
2006-09-16 08:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some mother's leave their children because they really doesn't care about her kids maybe she didn't plan on having kids and now she hates being a parent and doesn't want to be responsible for her kids maybe she just doesn't want her kids anymore .
2006-09-16 09:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by rayray17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No moral support from friends/family. Not enough money. Depression. stress. bored. needs a another life. not just caring for the children anymore..needs fun and excitement. illness .
2006-09-16 09:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was bringing them up alone then maybe she just could not cope anymore, BUT like other replies before mine, some are just scuz buckets and do not deserve their kids.
2006-09-16 08:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by candy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to say she is heartless,but also it could be a hormone thing and she needs to be checked out by her doctor.
2006-09-16 08:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women don't have the maternal instinct. Maybe she's one of them.
2006-09-16 08:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by I ♥ AUG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋