i hv my first sex with my ex bf.. so does he.. we hv break for 2 and half month.. i still think of having sex with him.. becos im addicted to it.. but he totally avoided me... he change his hp no.. and wadever i can contact him.. i feel kinda regret.. i also dunno how to face my future bf/ husband.. i feel so dirty..
2006-09-16 08:47:22 · 26 answers · asked by wination 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cannot understand your question!
2006-09-16 08:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by I ♥ AUG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answers will very from culture to culture. The thing is most men will quit you once they have had you before marriage. It is not that you are dirty, it is that the challenge has been met. This is especially true with younger boys (teen -25) They want sex and not to be tied down, NOT ALL OF THEM but a large bunch of them. That is why threre is a saying like this "why buy the cow when the milk is free?" I am not saying it is correc t thinking but it exists. If you are in a culture that places a high value on a womans virtue as oppsed to the woman as a whole, then it tends to be looked on in a bad light. No matter what we think you are the one who has to live with it. Why did you have sex with someone before marriage if you can feel dirty after your first bf has sex with you? Did he make promises to you ruining your virtue? Then you must keep it to yourself. Be very careful, you will now be vulnerable to anyone he may have told.
2006-09-16 15:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lynnette G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can be a beautiful expression of two people in love. It can also be fantastically fun and energetic. All that happened is that the repressed sexual feelings were liberated. Nothing else.
No, you're not dirty. No, no boyfriend worth having is going to be upset. The best thing you can do is go meet other guys. Find a really hot, sexy guy and go have sex with him. Don't ever feel bad about wanting sex - it's what makes you a woman.
2006-09-16 15:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you not washed that part after having sex with your ex BF? You say dirty? So wash the area with shampoo mixed with insecticides and get it cleaned.
2006-09-16 15:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by JILMAAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes avoiding you than dont bother. dont feel dirty just because you had sex with one guy. If you start having sex with lots of guys than you would be dirty but not now
2006-09-16 15:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Candace T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not dirty, when it's with someone you love. Find someone who love you and enjoy sex as you do, you will probably stop thinking of your ex bf.
2006-09-18 01:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Spend your time studying the English language so you can properly communicate. That will make you much more attractive to any worthwhile future mate.
2006-09-16 15:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by troythom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Common girl don't b so out date.Now adays this thing is so normal.Nearly 90 percent of the singal lost their virgin b4 married.Don't harm youself like this.Everything will b alright.
2006-09-17 15:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were more articulate, I would suggest you go ask your partner/ his friends for the reason of his behavior. Communication is everything. Learn it.
Don't wander about making up tragedies and live your life.
2006-09-16 16:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sattva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do stay "clean" by not having any due to sheer "fun"..
the first is always the "best" and memorable... its normal.
take your mind mind off it so\ince the relationship is over or else ' more dirty ' you may get. talk to someone close and dont give in to " urges ' . . . try alternative as in...DIY? it helps...
2006-09-17 05:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not dirty yet, but well on your way without some more English class.
2006-09-16 15:53:28 · answer #11 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋