well I think I am going to have my first kiss soon , I could use tips I am kinda nervous
2006-09-16 08:08:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If youre nervous, just follow him. If he kisses your lips, kiss his bottom lip, if you feel his tongue, follow his lead, circle your tongue slowly around his, then take his top lips between yours. Allow him to guide you, and just follow suit. No you dont want to drool all over him, just let it happen naturally. Yes you will have some saliva passed, but not like drooling etc... noone likes that. Theres a limit... but basically if your nervous, just follow his lead. Slow sensual kisses, mixed with deep passionate kisses are great... my favorite are candy kisses, which is taking his lip between yours and sucking. There is not right and wrong..It will come naturally to you, we all wasted time worrying about that first kiss... good luck.
2006-09-16 08:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by B_Strong_Speak_Tru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well well your in for a treat here . first kiss no matter how it goses will be with you for the rest of your life . its normally a fantastic thing that movies and books are about . theres no way i can keep you from being nervous here but i can help . don't worry before this happens just wait for it and be comforted in the fact that rarely dose anyone give a good kiss the first time but it helps if you keep it simple and soft and just let your thoughts travel while kissing . a good way to catch a fumble if your first kiss is kinda bad is just say after you catch your breath [can we try that one more time ] lol most think this is cute and gives you another chance to match those lips better . my first kiss was practiced for days before i actually tryed it out on girl Lil. i watched in mirror and watched movie kisses Lil. i was worried mostly what i should do with my hands when it happend . just let your thoughts go when it happends and give it a chance to come from deep inside you then it ll be a good one . you ll have many more after wards and everyone is a little different . dont be afraid take deep breath and just step into it then next one will be much easier. good luck youll do fine
2006-09-16 08:30:28 · answer #2 · answered by sigmond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that having a first kiss is going to be a problem, then simply don't have one. Here is how to ward off those annoying first kisses:
Eat plenty of garlic and onions...constantly if you want full-protection.
Act weird so that no one will want to kiss you.
Don't brush your teeth (this also ensures that you get your money's worth when you go to the dentist for a cleaning...make him work!).
Don't wash your hair or face...heck, just don't shower at all.
Ask potential first kissers if they are male or female; say you weren't sure.
If someone does succeed in starting a first kiss with you even though you've tried my above suggestions, here are some ways to cut that kiss short:
Belch in the middle of it.
Vomit in the middle of it.
Gnaw on the other kisser's lips and tongue. If you really, really want to end this kiss, make it painful.
Lift your arms...this will make the other person certain that you have not showered for a while if they couldn't tell before.
Good luck!
2006-09-16 08:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it simple. Do not go right for the slip of the tongue without first being comfortable with the kiss.
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2006-09-16 08:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Wharf Rat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice on your hand :) all you really gotta do it first touch lips, then let your tongue slowly work its way in, if you want this kiss to be frenchie style. If he's more experienced, just follow what he does. It's not hard at all, enjoy!
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2006-09-16 08:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by absoluteao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be too nervous or else you are not able to move for a kiss just be urself and look to the lips that is waiting for a kiss.
2006-09-16 08:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Aciela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not shove your tongue down their throat!
U just gotta "feel" it. I can't tell u, it's on of those type of things u can't explain it or teach it, it's something u just have to experience. Plus if u keep thinking about it too much, then more than likely you'll mess up.
2006-09-16 08:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by KryBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice kissing on a mirror. Good Luck ! :)
2006-09-16 08:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?? Well just let the experienced one show you the way. Dont have a bunch of spit in you mouth if your going to use your tounge. and be slow about it.
2006-09-16 08:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by whisper29me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you have gum and chapstick and keep your eyes open alitte to make sure you aim right and if you are a girl let me lean into the kiss first. good luck
2006-09-16 08:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by LaLa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋