My roommate kind of doesn't have the best habits & is sort of a tomboy & doesn't care if she farts whenever or wherever (makes no effort or excuse) and when she does dishes they are always just rinsed under water, never w/ sponge (so you get little pcs of food dried on them). She also refuses to shower until the smell gets so bad that she smells it herself (about 5 to 7 days).
I can't move or anything, she is the daughter of my mom's best friend & I really can't make a big deal about it cause it would offend them both. But this new things she has is she wants to "conserve paper" or the toilet so she won't flush toilet paper! So she carries poopy toilet tissue in her hand around the house after using the toilet (I guess so she doesn't stink up the bath trash she puts it in the main trash). BUT SOMETIMES SHE FORGETS and leave the poopy papers near the tub, or on the armoire dresser in the bathroom! Also sometimes there are little pcs of poop stuck there & I find them on the floor!
2006-09-16 08:07:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
This is not a joke. She is not crazy just sloppy I think & just doesn't care.
2006-09-16 08:10:12 · update #1
Yes so I confronted her about it cause I thought it was just too gross & she said it was our little dog, and she picked up his poop but forgot about it. She always has some excuse.
Also, sometimes she smears it because she puts the paper down & then picks it up. Tell me she is gross please & I'm not overreacting, I mean I could get e.coli!!.
2006-09-16 08:11:44 · update #2
also how can i prove it, save the poop? she always denies everything. like when she farts right next me, she pretends it was the door & moves the door back and forth like i'm gonna believe that.
2006-09-16 08:23:29 · update #3
This is either a joke, or your roommate needs to be in a mental hospital.
2006-09-16 08:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by eastcoastdebra 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OMG, OMG, OMG!!! That is the MOST disgusting thing I have yet to read on here...I would throw up if I lived with her!!! She is absolutely, without a doubt one of the nastiest people. I wouldn't worry about offending anyone...your health is at risk! It sounds like she needs some serious counseling, and fast. If I were you I would seriously be looking for a new place to live with a normal roommate. I feel very bad for you and your situation.
2006-09-16 15:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to live out of home, you are old enough to make your own decisions.
MOVE OUT
It IS an option. It wont offend them if you say you need your own space, or that you need to live closer to work, or that you are too embarressed to bring friends over because she's a smelly girl with no self respect, or respect for YOU!
If you dont move out, you have no other option but to put up with it I'm tipping you wont be able to put up with it forever. So do the noble thing now and GET OUT!!!
2006-09-16 15:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was hoping your roomie was a cat with long fur that had clingons. She can't really be for real can she? I would totally freak ... what a total pig. As to a solution video tape it and show it to your mom ask for her input Being a tomboy does not make you a pig and to be honest pigs only poop in one corner of their pen so they are cleaner than your room mate.
2006-09-16 15:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the most disgusting thing I have ever heard. She sounds like a nauseating pig and you need a new roommate. Was she born in a barn?
2006-09-16 15:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Offend them both? Grow a backbone for Pete's sake! Move out or kick her *** out. Make the situation known and that it is unacceptable. If you do nothing, you deserve what you get.
2006-09-16 15:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by Skeff 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Next time you find the poopy papers smear it on her pillow.
2006-09-19 13:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Peri 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg! You have to find a reason to move! That is just not normal human behavior! She needs to see a professional about this! I mean it, you need to get out!
2006-09-16 15:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by cjsipe24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have a sit down chat with her, and all in all if worse came to worse get a new roommate
2006-09-16 15:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by ANAWHO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is so disgusting,you need to tell your mom and get advice from her or you need to move out,it really is a unhealthy situation,in a case like this you dont need to worry about offending anyone,no one should live like this unless she wants to live alone
2006-09-16 15:18:29 · answer #10 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋