Should I leave her alone?
Should I bring some present for her "i.e. perfum"?
Should I excuse from her?
I do not know how to maintain relationship?
How female thinks in upset times?
2006-09-16 08:02:34 · 14 answers · asked by Shadi N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well first do not listen to these ladies on web. They will turn you into a mule. Second there is an old saying that she horse ( mare) and woman loyal to one who knows how to ride on them. Being said that Marriage is reverse of everything which makes logic, in other word its a relation which needs lot of hypocrisy but at the same time will break if there is no true loyality to it. So If you work hard and make your family affluent, do not take credit, give it to your wife. Never criticized her or her family. Make her belief that she runs the house but at the same time if you do not like anything to happened, do not ask her not to do it, just start probing into negative aspect of it and cast doubt. Any thing you like to happen do not ask her to do it, just start singing its validity songs. Never accept you families mistakes. Do not go into lengthy and pholisphical arguements but play dumb.
In nut shell control everything but keep leting her know that she is incharge. The way women nature is, even if someone tells them this trick they will still fall for it. Always remember that women have to argue about something once or twice a month to let out their sexual emotions ( also call pre-menstrual syndrome and not being able to solve math problems -- you know what it means). So do not get too much worried about these things and give them a quota of two episode per month. However if it start happening too frequently then this is a sign of restarting dating...take her out like a date for few time.
Think about horse. They like to be controlled or they will rebel against you. They like to be taken care or they will run away. They need romance ( dating) or they become sad. Peace
2006-09-16 08:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by WISEMAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her alot of attention. She will tell you to leave her alone but that isn't what she really wants, Go up behind her and start rubbing her shoulders. Tell her how beautiful she is and how sorry you are. Even if you aren't or didn't do anything wrong! Tell her you cant live without her love. Do something to make her laugh. Bring her flowers home from the grocery store. Do the dishes or clean the house for her. That should soften her up....if that doesn't work drop to your knees and beg.!
2006-09-16 08:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would really depend on why she is upset with you. Apologize and keep it in your memory bank so you don't do it again. She probably wouldn't mind if you cooked her a nice dinner and then did the dishes afterwards.
2006-09-16 08:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry, just leave her for a bit then come inside and hug her or if you feel shy try to make conversation or buy a present for her.
2006-09-16 08:07:15 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet&Sour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is really really really upset, then you should just leave her be, but if it looks like maybe she needs comfort, then talk to her. Tell her you want to make it better, but that you can't do it until you know what is wrong. Tell her it hurts you to see her unhappy.
2006-09-16 08:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by x-e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her flowers. Apologize and let her rant about you without you making any excuses. Then don't repeat the mistake again.
2006-09-16 08:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you did to her for her to be upset, try saying im sorry and flowers first.
2006-09-16 08:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by mrsp27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should say looking in her eyes: " I married with you because I love you and if you are upset with me I will understand it!" Good luck
2006-09-16 08:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by nonono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF IT IS JUST A SPAT THEN GO MAKE HER A NICE DINNER OR TAKE HER OUT SOMEWHERE NICE.IF YOU DID SOMETHING REALLY BAD THEN TIME IS WHAT YOU NEED TO GIVE HER.WE LIKE A GUY TO TELL US HOW WRONG HE IS AND HOW SORRY THEY ARE .
2006-09-16 08:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first find out y shes upset then talk it over
2006-09-16 08:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by grandmaginnys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋