Well yea my friend likes someone so bad. And she can't stop talking about this guy. Her friend asked him if he has a girlfriend. and he said yes. and that made my friend upset and heart broken. She doesn't move on. I keep telling her to move on and just let go. she doesn't want to. mann.. what should i do? she said she still wants to be friends though. She can't stop thinking about this guy and I feel sorry for her but then again.. all you can do is move on right? Iono. She's like the only one out of her friends that doesn't have a boyfriend and she feels like she's left out. So what do you guys think? what should she do? any advice? please and thank you.
2006-09-16 07:56:47 · 4 answers · asked by Joshua G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your friend can handle it then it's alright if she remains friends with this guy, after all he isn't married and his relationship may not be strong. However she should continue dating - maybe some of her friends can arrange a blind date with some of their single male friends. Some good dating services are:
http://personals.yahoo.com
http://match.com
http://perfectmatch.com
2006-09-19 13:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine25 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is obsessed. How about you set her up on a few dates to help get her mind off of this guy. Keep reminding her to move on. And when you get tired of hearing about this guy be a friend, an honest friend, and tell her to shut up about him.
And let her know that if she is looking for a boyfriend she will not find one. It's when you aren't looking for one when a relationship will develop. (personal experience) Also reassure her that you want her around even if she doesn't have a boyfriend and that you wouldn't ask her to hang out with all the couples if you guys didn't want her there.
2006-09-16 15:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by deltazeta_mary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriend/girlfriend/partner does not depict who you really are. Just because evey1 is doing it doesn't mean you should do it. Be in a relationship only when you are ready to. Tell her she is a beautiful girl and she can only start attracting other guys once she lets go of this "not-free" guy and be more herself and not trying to fit with the crowd. You'd be amazed to find many guys out there like a girl who is confident and truly independent and makes her own happiness
2006-09-16 15:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got on my knees to my ex-wife and begged her to reconsider divorce. I love you! I yelled at her. She said if I really love her, to let her go! I myself do see it like that but it's hard. God says we take the easy way out, because we dislike the logical hard way out. Take the hard way, let her go. If things don't work out for her, she'll be back!
2006-09-16 15:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋