I have a boyfriend and we have going out for awhile and i just dont feel comfortable goin out, and now i like this other guy and i want to know if he likes me......... wat should i do?
2006-09-16 07:31:21 · 36 answers · asked by track_star_teen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, save your "purity".
2006-09-16 07:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just arent ready to date if you dont feeel comfy?
You seem to be at the age where crushes are plentiful, and may feel better with casual interaction and relationships.
If you want to end the relaitionship, sooner is always better than later. And then worry about foinsing out if teh other guy is into you... you know how to do that. Find out from friends or the way he acts around you, you already have a bf, so you know how a guy acts when he likes you!
Good luck!
2006-09-16 07:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so you are saying you have had this boyfriend for a while and you don't feel comfortable around him? This is what my mom always told me and it led me to the right guy for me.. "keep your options open". If you have interest in other guys and the one your with now doesn't really float your boat a whole lot anymore than break up with him and try for this other guy. Chances are if you are having thoughts about other guys thna your relationship with your boyfriend isn't strong enough to hold onto anyway. Besides, if you're young.. heck even if you're not young.. you shouldn't settle and a world of opportunities is right at your doorstep. Bye, bye boy..
2006-09-16 07:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by moonshadow385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in another guy you have no business being in a committed relationship. Your heart is not in this. You should tell him you want to see other people. Doesn't he deserve to be with someone who wants to be with just him? Please be honest with him. You will feel much better after you do and you can then pursue the next guy.
Oh and you may lose out on this new guy if you show interest in him while you still have a boyfriend. Some guys do NOT like girls who may stray!
2006-09-16 07:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are willing to risk your relationship just to find out if that guy likes you or not is totally up to you. But take the raisk if you want to. And break up with the guy if you are not happy or comfortable. I know this guy at my school who I like and i dont date anybody but, i could find out if he likes me or something. But back to you, go ahead and see if the other guy likes you. and if you just happen to break up with your current boyfriend along the way would just be the icing on the cake.
2006-09-16 07:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by jigglet92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're not comfortable with him should be enough reason for you to end this relationship whether or not there's a 3rd person involved.
After ending it, you can try to find out whether the other guy likes you or not. Look out for signs that he's interested or just come up with excuses to talk to him and see where it leads.
Good luck!
2006-09-16 07:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by FairyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In fairness to your present boyfriend, you should break up with him before you try to find out if the other guy likes you. You are in the process of learning about relationships. If your places were reversed, and he liked another girl, wouldn't you want him to be honest with you by breaking up with you rather than sneaking around behind your back? Jesus' Golden Rule - Do to others as you would have them do to you. God bless!
2006-09-16 08:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking elsewhere you should break it off with your boyfriend. It isn't fair to act on an impulse to someone else you are interested in if you are with someone you have made a commitment to, as him to be your boyfriend. I am sure you wouldn't want that to happen to you.
Re-examine your feelings to make sure you want out of the relationship with your boyfriend. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
2006-09-16 07:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u need to end the relationship if your not comfortable with being with him,
second jumping straight into another relationship isnt gonna do anyone any good and wont make your corrent boyfriend feel very good if the day after you`ve split your dating someone else, have someone time on your own and enjoy yourself, if this other boy does like you hes not gonna be going anywhere, whats the rush???
think of other peoples feelings!!!
2006-09-16 07:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by bigsteve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i always say, if both arent giving 100% percent then its not a relationship. Tell him your not feeling him anymore and break up with him before you mess with the other guy. Dont cheat on him because if you really do care for your bf youd break up with him first. Of course try not to mess with the other guy asap cuss thatd be messed up. good luck
2006-09-16 07:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by lordchaos88 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say to break up with the guy you are going out with
2006-09-16 07:32:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋