2006-09-16 07:28:00 · 19 answers · asked by dangerously in love 06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kill it!
2006-09-16 07:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
first of all, you're pregnant and you don't need to be stressing yourself out! If he want to act silly, then let him go and move on! Right now, the baby should be the most important thing to you! He knows that he has a responsibility now and he may be a little scared! There are two ways that you can look at the situation: He may be trying to come up with ways to be there for you and the child and doesn't know how to deal with it right now! Sometimes, a man that becomes distant ends up being very very responsible once they come to terms of the fact that they're about to be a father! On the other hand, he may be upset because he's not ready to be a father and he's trying to come up with excuses! Give him time and try to talk to him about the baby! See what's on his mind and how he feels about everything! You may be blowing things out of proportion, but always remember that a mother has to be there for the child regardless! So, the best thing for you to do is make sure you and the baby are fine and that everything is working out for the two of you!! He'll come around and if he doesn't, HIS LOSS!!
2006-09-16 07:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by angellove 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This depends on how he is acting. If he's acting mean, that's probably not a good sign, if he's acting just differently, it could be a signal of nervousness, or stress. The best thing to do would be to sit down and talk to him about everything, and make a decision from there.
2006-09-16 07:38:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you plan the pregnancy?
Men tend to get nervous at the thought of a baby, try to involve him in the planning to ease his thoughts, sit down together and read articles on the stages of pregnancy, discuss what type of birth you want, get a book on names and together write a few down that you both like.
My poor husband suffered with me, as I bought pregnancy books and constantly reffered to them, even quoted them, He called them my "Bible".
In general, involve him more about the pregnancy stages, the labour, and after birth, choosing colours, a theme for the room, the curtains, the cot. Men have a tendency to see us as fragile when we are pregnant, they are scared they will harm the child.
Maybe the responsibility of a child that is a life long commitment is the most scaring thought of all to him.
2006-09-16 07:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Silke B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a responsible guy, he is going to marry you even without you telling him. But don't push your boyfriend into marrying you because you're pregnant. Let him have a free choice. But if he does not have that good committment of taking care of you. Better start saving your day for the future. Know what I mean.
2006-09-16 07:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well that does not surprise me at all that he is not acting the same, You've just told him that he 's going to be a dad.
He's probably really concerned with what the furture will hold for him, he's probably very nervous,
You need to convince him that everything is going to be alright, Tell him that you really need his help, and that your looking forward to eventually getting married and having a family,
This is coming from a guy
2006-09-16 07:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow !! but u no men are just like that they cant things serious, im sure he will loosen up more once he is getting used to the fact that he is going to be a dad, i mean u should really talk to him, and if he cant be mature bout it well then u need to leave him.!! and maybe ask ur mom for help !! or a good close friend.
2006-09-16 07:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give us more info on how he is acting compared to how he used to act. I will check back later and see if I can help!
A pregnancy is a child not a choice.....Mina - glad your mother didn't echo your opinion!
2006-09-16 07:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find out how he REALLY feels about you, then find out why he is acting the way he is.
2006-09-16 07:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing to do is to talk to him about how he is feeling. I'm sure that he is prolly going through just as many emotions as you are right now.
2006-09-16 07:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to get his act togehter, because you two are about to have a baby and if he doesnt get his act together he wont be with you
2006-09-16 07:31:24 · answer #11 · answered by Tyler :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋