2006-09-16 07:16:11 · 8 answers · asked by razorbladeforleather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart if he is trying to change you then that means he doesn't like what you are. You need to tell him that this is who you are.If you don't like it then I'm sorry but please stop trying to change me. Then ask him why he is dating you if he is trying to change you..That gets them everytime. It could be a control issue with him too. So this will make him feel guilty and hopefully stop.Good luck
2006-09-16 07:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate. Tell him that you don't want to change who you are and that you want him to love you as you are. Then, when he says or does something to pressure you, point it out to him so he can correct it. If he won't accept you or your new boundary, move on. Good luck....
2006-09-16 08:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by ZPE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change, im sure he wont be hurt, just explain how you feel, guys actually understand feelings more than you think
2006-09-16 07:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by James V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change yourself for someone else if they have to change you they cannot really like you Stay true to yourself and be yourself don't change for nothing you are who you are
2006-09-16 07:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by glass_city_hustla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't change for anyone no matter how much you like him. If he doesn't like you for who you are, he's just wastin your time!
2006-09-16 07:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by cowgirl2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him to go F.U.C.K. himself, I'm not changing for anybody and he can be the one to change,
2006-09-16 07:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever give yourself up for anyone.If he wants something else then he needs to look else where
2006-09-16 07:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change for no one, be yourself.
2006-09-16 07:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by JOSEPH ALEXANDER A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋