I like this guy, and he likes me, but everytime im around him i feel nauseous....not because he grosses me out, but i havent been in a relationship in a while, and the last one i was in, he broke up with me and slept with my best friend......i know he wouldnt do that to me, but its still weird cause it would be a big change for me.even when i THINK about him my stomach starts getting weird...i really like him... any advice to keep me from running to the bathroom everytime i see him?
P.S i also think from time to time that he's just pranking me by acting like he likes me. not because of him, but casue i feel that low of myself. if you could help with that,too, that'd be great.
2006-09-16 06:54:13 · 13 answers · asked by zlistcelebrity06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but will the nauseousness go away if i see him enough? or will it be there everytime i see him?
2006-09-16 07:58:57 · update #1
I think what you are feeling is anxiety...or fear. When we've been hurt in the past sometimes we can get fearful of it happening again with someone else. Even if our minds say it's probably OK, our heart remember the hurt. If the two of you end up dating, and nothing happens, you will start to relax.
Edit: It'll go away after you are around him more
2006-09-16 07:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just still not heal and still hurt from your previous relationship... The last relationship make you feel vaulerable now and can't trust men and you are doubting those afraid that he is pranking you and he is just playing you... You have to get past from that or else all of your relationship with guys won't last long... Take a deep breath whenever you see this new guy and go from there.. Not all men betray and be happy that you find your last bf a stupid moron.. And your best friend too what kind of so call friend she is... Try new method to make your stomach not to be uneasy.. Bring mints or sweet candy whenever your stomach turn to knots... Or take a deep breath and count to ten it will help.........
2006-09-16 07:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, You should not have low self-esteem. Your ex was a jerk and so was your best-friend. It is so cute that he gives you butterflies. There are some things to help with your confidence level. You could color your hair to a very flattering color. Start exercising or taking dance. Walk with your head up all the time. Wear lip gloss. Look in the mirror and tell your self what you like about you. Smile more. Read books written by divas or things about the divas of our culture.When you have enough confidence, you could walk up to him head high looking him dead in the eyes and ask him "Do you really like me or are you just pretending, I just want to know because if you do not I can deal and I will not waste any more of my time thinking about you in that way. I hope that we can at least be friends if we can't be anything else."
2006-09-16 07:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 09:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking some of the same questions too & I am a male after a female friend near my age or a few years each way that is suitable too or to just keep looking when she'll pop-up. I am an eazy target to get an easy to get hurt too. All this not knowing is hard anyway to say the least!!!
2006-09-16 07:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the nauseous feeling may not be only because of your last relationship, but BECAUSE you like him. It's the butterflies in the stomach type thing. You need to give him a chance, and if you do, and you find out that he's not like your ex, your self esteem may go up. Good luck. :o)
2006-09-16 07:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First don't think low of yourself, second you may feel sick b/c your body is releasing to many endorphins,your sympathetic nervous system is in over drive, just calm yourself by taking in deep breaths,think positive and be yourself. B/c no man is worth getting all sickly over.
2006-09-16 06:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are suffering from shell shock and you are not giving this guy a chance. Just because one person did you wrong doesn't mean this one will. Just give him a fair shot.
2006-09-16 06:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by inluvwshana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already sick, or have made a sick choice if you are a Queer. It's an act against nature.
Best advice I can give is change your life style. If you can't do it on your own ask God to help you.
He has helped all sinners who repented.
2006-09-16 07:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well the best thing to do is tell him and ask him if he ever gets nervus around u and if he says yes then u well be even closer togeather .
2006-09-16 07:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋