My boyfriends is 11 years older than me. Im a minor (16 years) but, parents aprove the relationship. I don't understand why they aprove it if they hate my boyfriend. Well, the point is that my parents can't understand that I want want to kiss and hug my boyfriend in front of them and not behind their back. I mean is the most commond thing between gf and bf. And my boyfriend knows that my parents get mad when they see us huging but, he still wants to do it in front of them even if that gets me on trouble. And if I don't hug him in front of my parents he gets mad. What should I do? This is getting me carzy!!!
2006-09-16 06:39:34 · 17 answers · asked by Mi Corazon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is wrong on SO many levels. If there is a 27 year old man wanting to be with a 16 year old....he only wants 2 things. To have sex whenever he wants to get you pregnant to give him children. Your parents are INSANE for even thinking of approving. GIRL OPEN YOUR EYES~ Move on, leave him...he will mess up your life FOREVER!!
2006-09-16 06:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your parents hate your boyfriend why in the world are you still dating him?????? The only reason you parents approve(?) of your boyfriend,is because they think that you would sneak to see him. That guy-friend of yours needs to be kicked to the curb. He has NO respect for you or your parents. If he did he wouldn't insist on hugging and kisses in front of your parents. He doesn't care if you get in trouble with your parents! At 16 you have a lot of growing up to do,But he should be man enough to know better! I would wonder what a 27 year old man wants with a 16 year old. You might not like it,you still are to young for him. He's using you.When he is done with you,you'll see. Lose him.
2006-09-16 13:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At 16, my parents would have killed any man who was THINKING about touching me while being 11 years older than me. I do not understand them either. There is something called respect. You live in your parents house, and if your PDAs are uncomfortable for them, you should wait until you two are not in their face. When I had boyfriends, if we were in front of my parents I would hug him shortly and only kiss him on the cheek. It is still affection but more appropriate. I would hug him and really kiss him longer when we were elsewhere. I would never tolerate my boyfriend's negative attitude towards me respecting my parents. It's a privilege for them to even let you have a boyfriend at all to prepare you for relationships. They could have forbid it until you were an 18-yr.-old adult and old enough to be out of the house.
2006-09-16 13:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK you are going to hate me but I have to say this. I have been in your shoes. I was 17 he was 26. That age difference is too much of an age gap to be sexually intimate with each other. Hugging and kissing is part of that. I was also angry at that age that i could not do it. But I am now 24. He is too old for you. I would not want to see my baby with a man that much older than my daughter either. He needs to respect that of your parents. If they are ok with the 2 of you seeing each other then he needs to respect the boundries of the rules they have set. No kissing and hugging in front of them doesn't sound that bad of guidlines. It all about respect. If he respects you he would not put you into that situation. Talk to him. Just tell him. If he has a problem with that one little thing and can't handle it then you are the one who is more mature in this relationship. Good luck and I hope he does not end up hurting you like mine did.
2006-09-16 13:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by meg10_82 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do it if you want to, my husband is 19 years older than me, and I am 20. We met when I was 17, started out just getting to know each other, and my parents didn't have a problem with it unless they had to see us hugging, kissing, holding hands. They were fine after we got married 2 months after I turned 18 tho. Do it if you feel you want to. It has NOTHING to do with your parents.
2006-09-16 13:48:10 · answer #5 · answered by gin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well firest talk to ur parents firest then tell them that u love him and huging him is not that big of a thing stand up to them...and if ur parents get really mad at u then go to ur boy friend and tell him that u talked to ur parents and thay dont like the fact that u are huging hi in frount of them the reason with him see what he has to say ,get both sides of the story.
2006-09-16 13:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this man is sick and gets turned on by doing these things in front of your parents. It also sounds to me like he is trying to control you. I think it's time to find a new boyfriend.
2006-09-16 13:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This guy is a sicko. He probably couldn't get any 16 year old pu**y when he was 16, so he'll be forever looking for 16 year old girls. Date someone your own age.
2006-09-16 14:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm an adult, and i know they approve it because, either if they don't ,you'll do it anyway.ANd hugging and kissing in front of your parents is intimidating, my parents are the same way.If your bf truly loves you, he'll not do it, and wait for privacy.He just want to show off , to get your parents mad.
2006-09-16 13:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by c c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you silly, silly girl...
your parents will probably never appreciate you making out in front of them, especially considering your boyfriend is actually a pedophile! try dating some one your own age... if I was your parent, I'd have your Daddy take him out in the woods some where and kick the sh*t out of him!!!!! and you'd probably get a little of the same!
2006-09-16 13:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by bigmammarush 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋