i have really liked this guy for a while and one min hes sayin he wants me 2 himself next hes sayin hes not sure if hes ready.....how can i win him over!
2006-09-16 06:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
put him up as a prize
2006-09-16 06:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by clair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this guy doesn't really deserve you!! But if you really want him you need to first, show him what he's missing out on. Make sure the next time he sees you, you look drop dead gorgeous. Secondly you need to come across as happy and confident, all men want a piece of that. And lastly, let him think he has a bit of healthy competition, you don't want to be too easy now, do you?
2006-09-16 13:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Oldfruit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate it when guys are like that. I think you shouldn't make it obvious at all that u like him more than u do, make him think of what you can offer if you decide to go into a relationship. Make him work for you, if he is really interested he will go after you and then of course you will also know that he is serious and it would be worth it then..if he doesn't do anything to get you all to himself like he says, then u know nothing is going to happen and then maybe you should move on. REMEMBER there is plenty of fish in the sea!! and whatever u do don't seem desperate like you would do anything for him like i already said make him work for it!!
2006-09-16 14:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys do not like being pressured into a relationship even if they love you a billion times over. Always be gentle when asking about when you want to get married. If he does love you he will be use there is no trick or magic about it just be yourself and be good and nice to him. If you constantly complain he will definately dump you.
2006-09-16 13:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by cool runings 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant really win anyone over that doesn't want to be winned over lol...The best thing you can do is make sure he knows your available and that you are interested in him. Then its really left up to him for what he wants.
2006-09-16 13:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very very slowly cool down towards him see where the distance bothers him, some men like a conquest then get bored some men are afraid of commitment try and gauge which he is
2006-09-16 13:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is from a guy ok. back off him. dont seem to eager. perhaps rouse his jealous buds by flirting with others round you. if he is keen he will come round. once you have him there are steps to keep him, but well thats a whole different question. good luck
2006-09-16 13:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by findinforest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's doing this because he's sure you like him. if something better comes along, he says bye-bye to you. so... don't chase after him. let him chase after you. but are you really sure you want to be with him? how do you know the relationship will last with this kind of behavior he has?
2006-09-16 13:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by sea_star 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Play hard-to-get
2006-09-16 13:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
issue an ultimatum. tell him you have had another offer, so he needs to make a move. either way you'll get a response. ;-)
2006-09-16 13:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by matt g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋