My bf won't stop screwing around. We only see each other one week a month so up until now I've been lenient with his "casual sex". After 2 years we just starting using the "L" word so you'd think he'd at least TRY to stop messing around AS MUCH, right? BUT NO, it seems like he's doing it MORE....and telling me about it, trying to plan 3-ways, etc. (I've never even been with a girl). I told him he's a sex addict and he says "no, I get blue balls, if I don't masturbate or have sex, the blood fills up, blah,blah," What a crock!!!!!!!! I know he's a jerk, I just want to know about BLUE BALLS and what the chances are of a guy's balls blowing up in his pants if he doesn't screw some ho at a bar, LOL!
2006-09-16 06:26:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know he's a jerk. There is absolutely NOTHING sexual I won't do with him. S&M, you name it, we do it all. I just don't understand WHY he would need anyone else. I guess because I allow it, right? I'm going out tonight and doing what he does and see how he likes that. Last time (only time) I did that HE FLIPPED!! What's good for the goose is good for the gander! I've had ENOUGH!
2006-09-16 07:14:20 · update #1
he is a liar. And you are wasting your life on him. Look for husband grade men. That way when you fall in love you at least have a chance.
2006-09-16 06:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by carolinatinpan 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
FYI, in order to get blue balls he has to be having sex constantly and then have it cut off all of a sudden. This is what no one has told you. It goes away and itf you don't go back to humping everything that comes your way, it does not come back.
Concerning your "relationship", if it took two years to say "I love you" then you probably haven't a clue what love is all about. I am guessing the sex is great or you wouldn't put up with his infidelity, but if you are looking for anything more out of him then you are sadly mistaken.
If you want a true relationship move on. Don't keep this guy while screwing around with that guy. That makes you almost as bad as he is, and it isn't fair to the new guy. Move on..
2006-09-16 08:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can get "Blue Balls" but this is not this guys problem..he is a sex addict.Blue balls might happen after a couple of months without it and even then all he has to do is masturbate to relieve it and often the body will relieve it through 'nocturnal emission'(wet dreams)..If U stay with him U will have to accept that this is how it will be for years to come..and eventually he will give you an std.
2006-09-16 06:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can get what they call blue balls, but it happens when there having sex or getting oral and they don't end up getting off for what ever reason, yeah it hurts them because they want to get off and need too, but as for him having to have sex all the time in order to not get blue balls is a crock of crap and he's playing you because you believe him except it and let it happen by not putting your foot down! He does not love you or else he wouldn't be sleeping witrh everyone everynight except you! Get a clue!
2006-09-16 06:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello *lisa*,
Well, there is a blue balls, but your balls don't actually turn blue, blow up, or anything like that. But, there is a pressure that is very uncomfortable. A lot of guys get that feeling when they haven't had a release.
As for your boy friend. If you don't like that he's fooling around on you like that, you need to break up with him. That way, he's free to screw as many people as he possibly can. You obviously don't share his sexual interests. You stay with him for your own reasons.
--Rick
2006-09-16 06:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you even call this guy your boyfriend when you say that you only see each other one week a month??? Move on!!!! You don't need this!!! He is just using the blue balls excuse!!! How would he feel if it was the other way around??? Time to move on!!!!
2006-09-16 06:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blue balls is the pain guys get when they get hard for a while and don't come. It can be releived by the use of an instrument known as "the hand" The help of women outside the relationship is not considered medically necessary.
Dump him, you deserve better.
2006-09-16 06:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by disguys_dalimit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blue balls are for real
2006-09-16 06:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
HIS BALLS NEED TO BLOW, WHAT AN A S S HOLE. HE NEEDS TO SPANK THE MONKEY INSTEAD OF LETTING EVERYONE ELSE DO IT FOR HIM. HE'S DISGUSTING..
2006-09-16 06:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump this jerk if he can't wait for you now he won't after marrage
2006-09-16 06:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋