2006-09-16 06:21:21 · 17 answers · asked by Nan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry to hear it.
Why not take a break from guys for a little while, and reconnect with people through volunteering and developing your hobbies?
I knit almost constantly; it helps me like therapy does for other people.
2006-09-16 06:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My sympathies. I am not sure what else to say. Good luck on healing and I hope all goes well for you in the rest of your life. I am truely sorry for your heartbreak. Tears may help wash away the pain. Find a new hobby to occupy your mind while you heal. Write about how you feel. And don't be afraid of talking to a stuffed animal. They are amazingly healing. Rest in the quiet and listen to your heart beating; it will remind you that you are still alive and have more life to live. Make yourself smile at yourself in the mirror. But don't lie to yourself and tell yourself it is just fine. Take your time to heal; but don't be picking up the pieces still in another year. To success, love, and prosperity! Go forth with your life. Laugh. Love. Good luck!
2006-09-16 13:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Charis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OOUUCCHH! What a bummer! That was very Hurtful!, but don't sit around and wait for him. I am sorry that your heart is broken, but your heart can be repaired with time. There is someone, with no strings attached out there who will Love only you. Don't let this experience break you, learn from it and have the kind of life that you know you deserve!
2006-09-16 13:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness,wow the best way I think to handle this situation is don't let him see you sweat,play it cool even though it really kills you inside let it be until your alone.Put on a happy face,smile,keep your head up, congratulate them for being back together give them your best wishes. So if he did suspect that you had feelings for him hell keep in the back of his mind that you really stayed together.
2006-09-16 13:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mshairstylist2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the coldest thing ever, i hope you wont allow him to make you shrink in pain...trust me he will get his come uppers, this man is totally heartless, and because his spite was deliberate karma will see to it he gets his fair share of hurt...be kind to yourself, and try to slowly erase him from your heart, and mind, with time it will be possible. Good Luck lol.
2006-09-16 13:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should leave him alone he apparently he did not care for you the same way so he is with the person he wants to be with so you should move on.
2006-09-16 13:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing but he probably doesn't know you think about him as more than a friend.
If that's not the case, he's an *** and you should tell him off.
2006-09-16 13:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by ingy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF u are happy with him...and love him...just say it to him... and if he still stay along with his ex wife then there is no meaning in staying with him...in our LIFE many such things happen...TAKE IT EASY
2006-09-16 13:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by bindu kiran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry nancy. Just kick him out.
2006-09-16 13:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, what's the question? He's out of your life, you are worth more, right? Move on, get going!!
2006-09-16 13:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋