I am not talking about friendship love, but can you be in love and not have sex? What is love?
2006-09-16 06:08:11 · 14 answers · asked by Dex's Gal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure, think of mom and dad, your brothers and sisters, your puppy (aka puppy love). Conversely you can also have sex with someone you don't love. Its all so flexible and confusing isn't it :)
2006-09-16 06:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by white_yack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't honestly answer your question because I am not sure what love is myself. I do believe it's when you care about someone. There are different levels of love for different people in our lives. The love for a mate might not be as strong as or may be different from the love one might have for a child. My parents where together for 28yrs before we lost her last Halloween at age 58. Her health had been bad for a number of years and as it got worse so did her mental state. I know for a fact that not many yrs after the birth of my brother(their child together) sex was no longer in their marriage (13yrs). I'm not going to lie and say it did not cause my mom a lot of heartache. I won't lie and say my stepdad didn't go out side the marriage for sex, we know of two incedents for sure. When the end drew near tho, he proved to her and to all of us that he truely did love her dearly. He had to sign the papers to have her uthenized(to put it nicely) and now he is dealing with the guilt. He has aged 10yrs over night it seems (completely grey headed now)since her death and is sad and lonely. Women in our community(with no class or respect) have come out of the woodwork so to speak and tried to make their moves but he has sent them on their way with out a second thought. He says that my mom was his one and only true love and no one will ever take her place. So yes, I do believe that two people can be in love, love each other dearly and not have a sexual relationship. Peace2U & Lots of Love!
2006-09-16 06:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by psykobarbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can but sex plays a major part of a relationship and one or the other is going to need it. if you love that person give it to them.
what is love? if you are from the chicago area theres a dj that say love is a feeling you feel when you feel like you never felt this kind of feeling before , and thats
the truth .
ps. just be careful cause love kind also hurt.
2006-09-16 07:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by spades c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can, I was really in love with my last gf and we didn't had sex at all the time we went out. The relationship ended because of another reasons.
2006-09-16 06:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mr.BrownSider 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if you in love with someone, love-making would be one of the best ways to express your affection.
Love is beautiful.
2006-09-16 06:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by Chanel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can be and my boyfriend love each other to death and didn't have sex for 2years only now are we doing it
2006-09-16 07:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be in love and not have sex.
2006-09-16 06:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by A guy who cant fall outta love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the time! My bestfriend is a guy! But we've been in each other's lives since birth.
2006-09-16 06:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by yaiyai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, love is something that means you care about some one so much that you would do anything to make sure they don't get hurt
2006-09-16 06:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i can!!! love is fertile ground for hope.One never ceases to love,though love may be unrequited....
others accepts celibacy....esp. the old ones...love to them is other word for companion till their last breath...
2006-09-16 06:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by eDraLiN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋