i asked a man out and he said no and i want to ask a nother man out but i am afarid of rejection help me please!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!???!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!!??!?!!?!?!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? i like ? marks sorry
2006-09-16 05:24:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, now you know how it feels when we get rejected. don't worry. the worst thing could happened is he says no. no big deal. before you actually ask the question, get to know the basic: is he interest in you, is he taken, are you interested in him. then ask for a friendly outing, like a movie or go to a coffee shop. if he has a special interest like rock climbing. then ask if you could go with him. it's a half-step-date but you'll get to know him.
2006-09-16 05:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I am so sorry you feel this way. I understand that because I have been there. But one rejection isn't the end of the world. It simply meant that he wasn't interested in you in the way that you are with him. It happens every day and it doesn't mean anything bad about you at all. Sometimes we are attracted to people and they feel the same way, and sometimes they don't. Sometimes people are attracted to us and we feel the same way, or we don't.
To get past your fears of rejection, you just have to try again and move forward. It's hard to do and scary, but if you don't take the chance again, you won't ever know what the answer would have been. You may get a yes!
Believe in yourself and know that you are of value and are worthy in this life. Don't hang onto insecurity and self doubt because it does affect your whole life. Love yourself and believe in you, because in life anything is possible if we let ourselves try. We may fail again, or maybe we won't. But if you don't do it, you won't ever know, you know? Put your best foot forward and take a risk!
Good luck!!!
2006-09-16 12:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcoem to fear factor. We all feel this and we al lhave ot deal with it.Either you face it or you let it control you.You either grab life by the horns andride it or it rides you right into the ground and you stay and hide there.So I say grab hold ofthe horns ,and ride and have fun.
You only get one shot at life , so you might as well have a blast doing it !
Ask the guy out and see what happens.
2006-09-16 12:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Glenn T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it so personally, he could of said no for alot of reasons...it may not be all about you! Yes, ask this other fellow out, he might say no...but he may say yes!!! What do ya' think the men go through?? What do you have to lose, a mar in your esteem? do it.
2006-09-16 12:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be afarid just ask,im sure you will find one.
2006-09-16 12:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never affraid 4 rejection this is god's gift 4 better acceptions ! try n try but don't try untill the happiest moments will not arrive ! this is my own's quotes for u. i m beliving in this 2 very strongly hope they will help u.
2006-09-16 12:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by forplay_afterplay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are afraid to ask him out how will you know if he likes you. what if he does like you but is too shy to show it or say it.just go for it, maybe he will say yes, but if he says no dont worry about it there's plenty of other guys that will love to go out with you.
2006-09-16 12:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by perez4204@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt ask men out, girl! Dont be desperate and if someone says no think to yourself their loss.
2006-09-16 12:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by Georgi Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out. Just because one guy said no.... doesnt mean the next one wont say yes. Keep asking....
2006-09-16 12:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send me an IM ill tell ya a few jokes, a laughing depressed girl is better than a depressed one! :)
2006-09-16 12:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋