me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now and his ex girlfriend will not leave us alone - he will not talk to her when she trys to come up and talk to him and then because he will not talk to her she goes off on him - and every time i am around her or him she calls me a s**t or a b*t*h - i have tried tell her off forever now but she kepts comeing back - i am not the type of person whogoes and hits people - but i feels like doing it sometimes - so i think i am going to file a harrassment charge against her and expile her from school - but i dont know yet - what do you think i should do to get rid of her???? HELP!!!
2006-09-16 05:04:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my boyfriend will not doing anything about it because he is to nice of a guy and wants to make everyone happy - but i am not happy - it piss me off that he will not stand up for himself
2006-09-16 05:10:43 · update #1
Wow, his ex girlfriend sounds like a real winner!! It's been a year and she's still not over it? Sounds a little psycho to me. It seems like she enjoys getting you upset. I know you want to beat the hell out of her and I don't blame you, I would want to do that too, but I think the thing that would really piss her off the most is to completely ignore her.
If she comes up to you and starts calling you names, just turn and start talking to your friends and act like she's not even there. She's either going to get bored when she sees she can't get a reaction out of you anymore, or she will just go off even more.
If she is a constant harassment to you or is threatening to you, you could always get a restraining order against her, then she will be legally forced to remain several hundred feet away from you. I know restraining orders are not fool-proof, but if she kept violating it and you kept calling the cops on her, unless she's really mental, she would just finally give up.
2006-09-16 05:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a harrassment charge especially through the school because that way they will have to do something. Tell your principle or guidance councellor exactly what is going on, what she is saying to you and that you feel unsafe. They have to do something about it. It definitely works because people did it at our school and it keeps them away!!! She'll actually be scared of you.
2006-09-16 05:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 00:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by blumenkrantz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say call a restraining order from the cops. Or go and do the same to her like 3 times a day see how she likes it.
2006-09-16 05:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ferretier 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your boyfriend leading her on? Is there reason for her to think she still has him in her life how jealous could she be of you if he talked to her in front of you if both of you said hi and held conversation and if you can go see a counselor about this and if you have to there are other men out there
2006-09-16 05:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
file a harassment charge with your school. Would it help if the bf told her to leave you both alone?
2006-09-16 05:07:25 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a friend of mine once told me that if u are really nice to people that get on your case or treat u bad, they will get scared and leave u alone. maybe, if u start treating her nicely, ask her to go shopping w/ u, or have lunch w/ her, maybe she will get spooked and think u are "crazy"....and who knows, leave u guys alone.
good luck
2006-09-16 05:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by silkydrika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have your b/f talk to her and tell her that she needs to leave the both of you alone.it just sounds like the more he ignores her the madder she gets.so have him talk to her and end this for good.
2006-09-16 05:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to be involved with a guy who won't protect you?
2006-09-16 05:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask ur boyfriend to **** her sorrry to have sex with her with 6 condoms and i hope she will not c him for the nex few months
2006-09-16 05:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋