my fiancee of 7 years broke up with me a couple months ago he has since met another girl and then last week she talked to me about wanting to not be with him and wanted my help so she didnt hurt she said she had lots of goal and didnt have time for a relationship then she said he wants to be with me again cuz he keeps talking to me. a couple days after that she said she was confused and worked it out and now she is saying i cant even be his friend its really hard not even being able to be his friend i am not trying to break them up so dont think that i just dont know whats going on with this girl
2006-09-16 05:01:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
natually if you know someone that well you will never just forget them and we both decided to be friends
2006-09-16 05:07:59 · update #1
ok we werent engaged for the whole 7 years that doesnt happen like that i meant we were going out for about 5 or 6 years then got engaged
2006-09-16 05:22:22 · update #2
Both of them don't know what they want so leave them alone. You've never had anything to do with the situation to begin with so let them work it out themselves. There are plenty of guys out there who would love to go out with you. Let it go and move on with your life.
2006-09-16 05:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First screw your head on straight.... This is not your problem .... He didn't want to continue your relationship and left .... move on to someone who care for you and what you have to offer..... .face it a seven year engagement is a bit long....you both had to have some misgivings or you would have been married by now... as for helping her .... left her break or bruise him any way she feels like..... Do Not Dwell in the passed. trying to pick up dropped eggs (raw eggs) is very messy and I don't know many folks who would encourage it.
Start fresh .. Move ahead. Move on.
2006-09-16 12:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first how could you be engaged for so long without getting married? And if he broke up with you why are you talking to him or his new girlfriend?
I suggest that you start a new chapter in your life without him or her in it. Move, change your phone number, get a new job, find some new friends and start living your life...Go out, have fun get involved in new activities...go back to school!
2006-09-16 12:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be his friend he sounds like a big nut and she does to let it go and move on
2006-09-16 12:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that makes two of us!!!!!!!!
2006-09-16 12:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋