I want to know what the average girl looks for in a guy? It can't be an honest and nice guy because thats what I am. I trully wanna know why women like asshole men? Is This what you want? OK so there is more than one question but you see where i'm going with this.
2006-09-16 04:12:06 · 16 answers · asked by JGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cute smile
eyes
basically gud looks
who wud understand me
who wud flirt a little
if he respects gurls then impressive
if he treats them well
if he treats evrybody well
if he has a gud sense of humour
if hes not boring if u hav to spend a whole day doing sum project wid him
if hes sexy then awesum
smell shud be perfect like wen he puts perfume u can get the smell
he sshud hav gr8 dressing sense
when he says sumthing he shud do it
if hes loyal has smart hairstyle
if he'll help u when u want his help
seriusly i wud want all this in a guy.
if uve got all this then contact me
if uve not got all then still contact me (only if u want to)
2006-09-16 04:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some girls just can't help it and they like the 'bad boys' but besides that when you are sweet to a girl like compliment her here and there, just a simple you look nice today, she will notice it. If you can make her laugh and smile and make her feel good about herself she will like you even more. And you need to be confidence if a girl walked into the room with her head down and like she was ashamed you wouldn't really take notice in that but if a girl walked into a room with a smile on her face and very confident you would notice her right away. Same goes for you, just don't act over confident. There are many girls out there that want a nice, honest, and intelligent man. Hopefully you find her.
2006-09-16 05:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sorry, I'm not the average girl and I really do go for the nice, honest, and smart guys. There are some of us, though we may be few and far between. I don't really know why girls go for the asshole, but some have told me that they like the challenge. Also, other's have told me that they want to be the ones to change them (how stupid is that?) because that would be an honor or make them feel really special. Also, a lot of girls want to be needed, they equate being loved with being needed, and so they end up with losers because it makes them feel good to know that without them, the guy would be nowhere? So strange.
Personally, I like a guy who is really smart (that is my primary rule... I just couldn't date someone who was not as smart as I am). Then, they have to be nice (I've never dated someone who was not an extremely nice person). Then I'd like them to be tall... preferably tall, dark, and handsome, but tall is really the only one that really matters to me... they just have to be taller than I am because I wouldn't want to bend down and kiss some guy (I'm average height, not particularly tall, so it's not unreasonable I think). I don't want to be with someone who is really fat because then they have some problem where they don't care about their health the way that I care about mine and that would just mean we had VERY different values there... but I'd be willing to be with somone who was unhealthy if them seemed that they were on the path to becoming healthier and that the motivation for that came within themselves, not just from trying to impress me. Then, finally, I'd prefer a guy with my sense of humor, though I've dated some without... but it ultimately led to problems. Honesty is really important too, but not something that initially draws me to a guy, because I just figure, if all the other things are in place, then I'll give it a go, and then if he turns out to not prove himself honest over time, then he gets the boot, but if he's honest, then he stays.
So, that is what I really look for in a guy.
2006-09-16 04:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a woman, but mind if I take a swing at why so many women go for guys that we might consider assholes. Biological programming. One thing women look for even if subconsciously is a guy who seems like he may be able to protect them. While the "asshole" may be rude, aggressive, and other things that are necessarily nice one thing that he at least gives off the vibe of is being able to take care of himself and his girl which is one thing polite guys don't give a vibe of. Of course its image but in some ways image can be more important than substance.
2006-09-16 04:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like honest and nice guys who can be naughty with me in private. There's women who like asshole men, but this doesn't mean that ALL women like asshole men. In the long run, we will want to be with a nice and honest guy. They're the ones suitable to settle down with.
2006-09-16 04:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A sensible girl wud luv a cute,honest guy who respects her doesnt flirt around n who really understands her n is there 4 her no mtter wat.Girls like asshole men coz they r assholes.They just hanker after money n how well yr guy is keepin up 2 da xpectations of da crowd but in da end dey land up regrettin.So jus b yrself n u find out da girl who was jus med 4 u.Good luck.
2006-09-16 04:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by onlysrija 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a woman yet i do no longer act in accordance to any of the situations you presented. If i'm around an particularly appealing lady I even tend to video exhibit what her maximum original characteristics may well be that make her appealing and doing that conjures up me to purpose and strengthen my visual allure.
2016-12-12 09:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girls don't really want to be with guys that are ******* but when there's a guy that comes around and is the sweetest guy you'll ever meet and they get to talking the girl starts feeling like she doesn't deserve him and moves on to ******!
2006-09-16 04:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Cherry Blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh. I read all the answers above and all of them, and I mean all of them, are talking about ME.
I must be pretty amazing dude. I need to quit being so humble...
2006-09-16 04:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz every once and a while we like guys to be aggresive at times
2006-09-16 04:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by SaDiE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋