My friend and I NEED a boyfriend! We are going crazy. Please help.
2006-09-16 04:10:21 · 17 answers · asked by sillygirl227 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself and look to how the other person is on the inside. Beauty can be deceiving.
2006-09-16 04:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by gilgonz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geeze you must be young. I remember being in jr high and having crushes. It was horrible and I didn't know how to get a guy. Once in high school it still didn't happen altho I was pretty darned cute but I sure got hit on by boys from other schools and got asked to the prom a lot too. You can't be aggressive, boys like girls who are hard to get but, on the other hand, sitting and waiting you will probably wait forever.
There are two choices, just behave yourself and sooner or later it will simply happen. Or start hanging out at other schools or places where guys from other schools go. I don't know about nowadays but when I was a girl in the 60's, we all went from elementary all the way thru high school together. There were hundreds of us of course but after that many years everyone knew each other and it was almost like we were brothers and sisters. You knew your place in the pecking order. Take your cute little self to a function for another school and just relax and have a good time. Don't sit there with makeup on your baby face panting for someone to ask you to dance. Just be cool and talk to your friends and pretend like you don't have a care in the world. Make sure you laugh a lot, ppl want to be around ppl who are having a good time.
Linda
2006-09-16 11:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by Linda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you two NEED a boyfriend?
There's so much more to life than having a guy around to complicate it. Gees.
You both should be working on your education and career paths and leave the guys to worry about themselves.
Believe it or not, the harder you look, the harder it is to find a boyfriend. He'll pop up once you get comfortable with yourself and stop looking for him. In the mean time, put your head where it belongs and get into the books, your family and your friends.
2006-09-16 11:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF..because anyone who likes you because of the dress you wear or the make up u apply is going for the artificial you...and even if someone falls head over heels because of your beauty then too it'd be wrong ..yeah but if he also sees your inner beauty and appreciates it would be the right guy..so you and your friend can stop going crazy because there is someone made for you..probably its just not the time..but think positive and be optimistic because you never know the moment may be now or the next second..best wishes.peace!
2006-09-16 11:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by homosapien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Purpleful, I'm very sure that you're on the right track by coming to this site. I can assure you and your friend that you're going to receive several invitations from guys here. But the only thing to add is that, you should really make up your mind as to what kind of relationship you're looking for. I'm a guy, hot and creatively humorous. I'm making a request to know you better. If you don't mind, kindly contact me through my profile. Have a nice week-end.
2006-09-16 11:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to places and get involved in activities that would also interest men. Make your self attractive, accessible and available. Smile and be friendly, talking to people. If you do that you will effectively increase your opportunities to meet men which should lead to boyfriends.
2006-09-16 11:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shud hav style u shud luk gud outdoors wid frnds or family at a party. u shud wear the correct clothes.
if ur in skul then check fora gud looking guy who matchers ur requirements if ur in college then do that in college.
if uve already got a gud looking guy in hand then first start wid basics if u dotn know him like hi . ask him for sum notes. then talk to him a little. start making sum eye contact. becum frnds. start flirting. and then if he likes u then hel ask u out or u ask him out.
2006-09-16 11:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by kaajal_koyyana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down and take it easy. Try ti impress him by beind athletic or nie. Try some new styles too.
2006-09-16 11:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by Pre lives on 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont be so desperate... the right guy(s) will come in time... be paitent
2006-09-16 11:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by hmmarshall21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who says u need guys to complete u???
go watch a porn if u want
2006-09-16 11:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by frost fire 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋