For the last 4 weeks i have been talking to this girl trying to set up a date. I thought she was interested in a small relationship but it turns out this whole time she just wanted to go out to the movies just to hang. I mad cause i thought she wanted more. Now she told me she was actaully talking to someone else but she's really not looking. I don't want to go on to someone else. What do I do?
2006-09-16 03:54:26 · 12 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave her alone you can find way better trust me
2006-09-16 03:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Fritz J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your assumming that she wanted more was a mistake on YOUR part! Just because someone goes out with you does not mean they are wanting a commitement! Get a grip! Doesn't what she want mean anything to you? If not, then you are a very selfish person and are not ready for ANY relationship!
If you want any kind of a relationship with this girl, then just be friends. If it leads to something special then great! If not, then be happy for the friendship. You can not force a relationship on any girl! If you do, then you are an abusive, controlling guy whom all girls should AVOID!
2006-09-16 04:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Vickie J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe that so many people want to get into a serious relationship so soon before they even have a chance to really know a person.
What do you do? 1) Be glad that a hot chick wants to spend time with you. 2) Keep asking her out & make the dates interesting & fun. 3) If all she wants to do with you is "Hang" then respect that, if you can't then move on.
2006-09-16 04:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unfortunalty if either person doesn't want a relationship, then you aren't going to have one.
do you want to be withsomeone who isn't thinking about you?
or worse who is thinking about someone else?
The best thing to do is try to be a freind, and learn about them.
if they become free in the future, you will know allready what kinda things she likes, and will be in a good position to try then, but always remember, she may be with that other person forever. or never come to you.
it sounds harsh, but its better to know that before you get more feelings invested into it.
and you don't have to move on to someone else, you can just be you for a while, and thats ok
2006-09-16 03:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by papeche 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay
First, you wouldn't be "going on to someone else", because you really don't have anything here.
This girl is being up-front with you, and it seems that you're mad because "you spent yo money and didn't get no honey"!
Hey, you don't say how old you are, but if you're young, just chalk it up to experience. Trust me, this won't be the last time this happens. Deal with it!!
2006-09-16 04:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by MALIBU93 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should be glad shes told you before you ended up going to the movies and falling for her. At least she was honest with you. If you want to just go and have some fun then you should. Who knows maybe once she's got to know you better she might want a relationship.
2006-09-16 04:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first things first, curse her by every foul word under the sun, but only in your head. then tell her that you don't mind staying friends even though you want her badly. if she agrees try to be a really good friend, comfort her when shes down and make her feel special. i believe you will win her over in the long run if she thinks you will make a good boyfriend.
2006-09-16 04:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by sibmode 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously she was only needing male companionship. If she is not interested in a love like relationship, I would not pursue in trying as you could also lose her as a friend. Keep your options open to other girls as she is with other males.
2006-09-16 04:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls have a hard time being direct and confrontational. She is not interested in you and she is letting you know in a less-than-direct way it seems. Anyway, I'd move on if I were you, because you can't force her to like you that way if she just doesn't.
2006-09-16 04:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey rejection is hard to handle ...Their obviously wasn't chemistry between you two ..I would move on you can't make some one like you enough for a relationship accept the friendship .
2006-09-16 04:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why torture yourself? She isn't interested in a relationship with you. So move on! Good Luck!
2006-09-16 04:01:53 · answer #11 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋