she sits across from me, and i talked to her alittle the first day. i tried to get her to notice me, but we never even said hi since. i wamt to try to strike up a conversation, but she always listen to music. is this a sign telling me to leave her alone, or is she just not interested. i really want to start talking to more so i can eventually ask her out. i literally am thinking of her every minute of the day--im not just saying that, i first saw her two weeks ago and have thought of her literally almost once every minute, give or take. i almost cant take it anymore,
2006-09-16 03:36:30 · 17 answers · asked by burnsielaxplayer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
queen a, you sound so misguided.
2006-09-16 19:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by slippie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she listens to music maybe you ask her what music she's listening to or if you can listen to it too she seems like she's interested in music so be interested in it too that way you can strike up a conversation and dont try to see her all the time if she starts to drift away then start doing something else just dont go somewhere else maintain a clear seeing position for her so that she wont forget you you might want to bring in your own music and you 2 can compare and contrast maybe you can ask her how her day is going
after a succesful conversation or 2 she'll probably begin to notice you more now your at the friendship level so you can now say hey or hi or what's up to her once in a while it's ok to not be able to stop thinking about her i get that too sometimes about girls it's just how males are
2006-09-16 10:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by cokiepokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not be shunning you, it might just be that she often listens to music like that. I know, because I listen to music everyday on the bus, not because I really like to ignore everyone else, but more that that's just what I like to do on the bus. So go for it. Make small talk. Ask her what music she's listening to -- you can start a great discussion off of that! And then just flow from there. Good luck. ;)
2006-09-16 10:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by kachelsachel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a girl is interested we send out signals whether it's a flip of the hair, or just a smile. You can usually tell. Look for signs.
Why don't you just spark up a conversation with her ....all she can do is say no .and then you know to fantasize about someone else.
2006-09-16 10:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by lcsotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I think you should sit with her on the bus one day and talk to her. You should do this for a few days then if you think you still like her, you can ask her to go to a movie or something.
2006-09-16 10:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by cheesepoofer182 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she was intersted in you. she would stop listening to her music and talk to you, unless she is bashful? Try sitting next to her and try getting her attention! You will know is she is really interested then! Good Luck!
2006-09-16 10:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno how u fell (well in a boy situation) well if your to shy tell a friend to go ask her out! But girls dont like that stuff just go to her and say _______ i just wanted to know if you would go out with me i reallly like you and i think you perfect will you go out with me? turst me i am a gilr i kno these things you guys are ment to be and if she dose say no its ok there are other fishes in the sea!! and about the convo. i think you should go up to here since she is listing to music alot pull one of her ear pfone up and say "hey whatcha listin to" and go alone with it tell her u like that kind of music n say soo u wanna go do somthing one day u kno just as friends get to kno her but dont get to close of freinds alot of girls dont go out with there guy friends! but show here how nice of a b/f u would be pull out her chair and just be nice eamil me back if u have anymore questions thankx!
2006-09-16 10:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by natalie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, be bold. Just start a talk on music, I'm sure she would respond.
2006-09-16 10:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by NATIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here's what you need to do.... go buy her a chicken nugget happy meal with a toy and give it to her on the bus.... it works every time
2006-09-16 10:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find a different time of day to talk to her... if she keeps avoiding you, forget it, the harder you pursue her the harder you will fall.
2006-09-16 10:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by R man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to walk up to her and talk to her, she just hasn't seen you yet, she will take interest when you make the first move
2006-09-16 10:41:32 · answer #11 · answered by moonketcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋