2006-09-16 03:29:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a fat girl (woman). I don't always have that problem. It doesn't matter wether you are fat or skinny. What matters is the kind of person you are dating. I'm talking about morals and values, and it's always nice to find people who have them!
2006-09-16 03:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by gtkaren 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend told me guys date fat girls (or just have sex with fat girls) because they are usually good in bed because they know they have to "try extra hard" to make up for their physical appearance.
My best friend is heavy and she is downright nasty in bed, so I guess his theory is right. Throughout the years she has been with alot of really hot guys (friends of my boyfriends, etc) and never seems to realize they just use her for sex.
This should be a clue: If a guy doesn't kiss you or go down on you, you know he's just using you. My friend always had that problem and never once in my life has a guy EVER dissed me like that. If a guy tells you "I don't kiss", you might as well have a bag over your head.
I HAVE TO ADD that I used to weigh 200lbs and now weigh 125 so I have nothing against fat people. As long as you are confident, other people will think you are beautiful, no matter how much you weigh!!!!! The fat girls who do "the nasty" with any joe schmoe are usually the ones lacking self confidence and do it for acceptance, not because they actually want to. Guys will have more respect for a girl (regardless of her size) if they don't put out too soon.
2006-09-16 03:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It isn't just fat girls that this happens to. Men/boys have lost the ability to show respect to a woman. Now don't get to down on them right away because it is partly the females fault too by how they dress IE lack of clothing covering the body. The other thing is men have this conquest attitude (some women do too) so they try dating a heavy set girl thinking that she will be desperate to try and be with a boy and do anything. If you are a heavy weight girl don't let it happen. Always carry a cell phone and phone mom and dad if things get out of hand. Also don't let them take you any place that makes you vulnerable.
2006-09-16 03:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by newspapermaker 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Creepy guys and predators are always looking for prey. If they perceive that any girl might have some emotional insecurity they will swoop in and try to take advantage of it. In this society fat people, especially females are not respected, and are less powerful, therefore they are perceived to be vulnerable targets.
Creeps and predators will try to get whatever they want sex, money, other things, from the person who feels "less worthy" and will take advantage of the emotional weakness.
Get yourself healthy, strong and fit. It is one of the most powerful things you can do to increase your prospects in every area of life, career, education, employment, and relationships.
Learn to look for the signs of predators of all kinds. Be strong. Value yourself. Make your own 100 year life plan that includes all aspects of your education and plans for your life and when where and under what circumstances you want to be sexual. Make sure to avoid things that are not part of YOUR plan. Do not become part of a predators plan.
Read books that help you learn about what kinds of life choices make for the best, most productive life that you want to live. Make your plans long before the creeps come along. See the red flags, and avoid the people that represent "detours" from your chosen path.
2006-09-16 03:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of "boys" are basically insecure and feel that they stand a better chance with larger girls ( hoping that the girl will be self-conscious about her size). Fortunately, most large women have enough self esteem to not give in . The only other reason I can think of is that most boys would have sex with any female, just to be having sex.
2006-09-16 04:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by hermit_of_cosby 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys think they deserve sex out of EVERY girl, skinny or fat.
That's not YOUR problem or HER problem, it the MANS PROBLEM. They think they have rights to something that is not theirs, they see no boundaries and know no respect for a woman body or psyche-- with the way media portrays women as just bodies tolikeor not like, it isnt surprising.
What is disappointing,then, is that so few men will think beyond the television or magazine covers.
2006-09-16 03:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Yentl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The skeezy, horny, stupid guys want sex out of any girl because they are dumb and think they deserve it after buying you a $14 meal at the Olive Garden...doesn't matter if they are fat,skinny,tall, or short. They have no respect, are immature and stupid. It takes a while but the good ones are out there.
2006-09-16 03:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by lauren k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys always want sex whether the girls are fat or skinny...
2006-09-16 03:35:39 · answer #8 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because fat girls are hot.
2006-09-16 03:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by Frank R 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I suppose they think because the girl is fat then she will be quick to get naked coz as far as shes concerned it could be her only chance. Now I know that sounds cruel but dont have a go at me, I dont think like that!
And if most other guys out there dont agree then please accept my apologies.
2006-09-16 03:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by bruvvamoff 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋