2006-09-16 03:13:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Thank you.
Get well
2006-09-16 03:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by toietmoi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear that.
I don't think they meant it the delusional way it sounds. I once had to get a card for someone in a similar situation, and I realised there is an entire genre of greeting card that nobody is making. I couldn't very well send a get well card, because who was I kidding? It didn't make you feel any better, did it? I solved the problem by getting a "thinking of you" card. It didn't say all I wanted to, but I could write that in.
I think what your friends are doing is either being hopelessly optimistic, or they just don't know how to tell you what is really on their minds. They might be very afraid to talk to you about this, and relied on a card to do it for them. Unfortunately, as I discovered, the card companies haven't clued into the fact that a different kind of card for someone in your situation is desperately needed.
In your situation, I guess I would just say "I got your card- thanks for thinking of me." or "thanks for your optimism." the latter may get them thinking.
2006-09-16 15:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No response is necessary, people are sending you these cards merely as a way to let you know they are thinking of you. Many don't understand cancer and don't realise that late stage means you will in all probability not "get well soon". It is simply their hope that you do get well. Many people do not know how to express themselves well and they are reaching out in the only way they know how. God bless you and your family and may you rest easy. My thoughts are with you.
2006-09-16 03:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by lolo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're getting tons of cards, maybe just ask a family member or someone else close to you to let the senders know you appreciate it. Just know that the senders' thoughts are with you, and appreciate the good wishes in your heart. I think that's all that's necessary. The cards aren't being sent to obligate you to another task when you already have so much on your plate.
God bless.
2006-09-16 04:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by locolady98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you ........say thank you or no response is fine. Sorry to hear about your cancer. I will meditate/pray for you that when the time comes, you will not suffer at all. Everyone has to go, the difference is how. If you can go without pain or suffering, it is a blessing in itself. May your angels be by your side to assist in your transition. Be strong and don't be sad. It will not be the end. It is the beginning of something beautiful.
2006-09-16 22:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang, I was hoping to find a real answer here. of course, the only photos I have received have the face clearly shown. I still haven't gotten past the beautiful smile... sigh listen, if you really need a good laugh sometime..just ask and I'll send you something. Just don't eat breakfast, lunch or dinner just before looking at them.
2016-03-17 21:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one expects you to send out notes, but if you have the time or strength to compose a heartfelt handwritten note, e-mail message, or even a telephone call, then do it. Pour your heart out and tell the person just what they mean to you. If you can do it in writing somehow, it will be more meaningful because the person can treasure it after you're gone. But no, you aren't obligated. Best wishes to you. I hope for the best.
2006-09-16 03:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It saddens me to know you are suffering.
To respond to get well cards if you are able, get a box of thank you cards and jot a note inside and mail it, if you are unable then ask a friend or family member to assist you. Bless you.
2006-09-16 03:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear this. There is no reason to respond to get well cards. If you feel like making phone calls or E-mails, you might tell them you appreciate the card(s).
2006-09-16 03:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by beez 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather cards that say "Hope you die soon"?, the proper response would be for you to thank them for hoping you will get better. Miracles still happen.
2006-09-16 03:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes... Just a simple(no pictured cards) thank you note.. On that note you can express your appreciation of their kind words and how much those words mean to you.
2006-09-16 03:37:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋