Im already 15 of age but i dont still have any boyfriend.....
I saw my crush yesterday holding the bag of her girlfriend and i felt so very very bad...
im wishing that i was that girl with him... what would i do...
I see my self as a loser...couse i tried crying because of BOYS!!!
2006-09-16 03:13:24 · 16 answers · asked by Eunice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At 15 I wouldn't worry about it. Your eduction is more important at this time. You may feel left out because of not having a boy friend now but what you will find out later is that buy studying now you will be further ahead later where it counts like a job. More and more any decent job requires a degree this is what you need do look towards right now not boy friends. You can have friend boy and girl but leave it at that friends because later on the boys that you know now will not be what you want later.
2006-09-16 03:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by newspapermaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 15 ... it's an awkward age, but if you see yourself as a loser others will too ... you need to take some time, get a new haircut, get some new clothes, try a little make up ... learn to like who you are, wake up and tell yourself your pretty ... build up your self esteem ... your not a loser because you don't have a bf ... the right bf hasn't come along for you and when he does ... you'll be the right person for him .. don't just settle to have a bf ... make yourself worthy of the right guy.
2006-09-16 03:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who doesnt cry beause of guys? we all do and then we learn its not worth it at all, but we still cry....
yes i know how hurtful it is to see your crush or your love with someone else. just be happy you didnt see them dancing and looking really in love with each other and kissing...
im 17 and iv never had a proper bf. i had like 2 week non serious things, hook ups but never a proper bf. i used to worry before now i really dont care. honestly, i would rather be with someone who loves and cares for me and who im happy with rather than just jumping at the first opportunity that comes.
dont worry, your not a loser. a guy will come when you least expect it. so for now, have fun, hang out with your friends, be yourself and there will be a lot of guys willing to be with you. then all your gonna have to do is pick!
2006-09-16 03:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by carcaterra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy there young lady!!! Take a deep breath - now slowly exhale - - - The point is you are ONLY 15. There is no reason in the world to be upset that you don't have bf! If you were 25 you might have reason to be a little upset.
when the time is right - you will find Mr Right!
2006-09-16 03:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it's WAAAY to early for you to have found Mr. Right! You see, I didn't have a real boyfriend until this year because never before had I found someone whose name rhymes with mine, hence, Cyrus has become the light of my life! Before I met him I was still in love with my 7th grade history teacher Mr. Kolodzy, but Cyrus is my twin separated at birth cuz he’s the PERFECT match! He’s intelligent, creative, eccentric, down-to-earth, firstborn, & just like me he DOES NOT hang out w/same-sex friends all day. He was unpopular in school, never playing anything but baseball & soccer as a child, & he can sympathize w/the “IRIS the VIRUS” rhyme since his name is CYRUS & he’s proud of it! So what if they called him “CYRUS the VIRUS!” The only truth in that thing about how Irises & Cyruses don’t get sick with colds is that FEWER KIDS BEFRIEND ONE W/A NAME LIKE THAT, thus there’s slightly less exposure to germs! But all too well, we both know what it’s like when your throat hurts, your nose runs, your ears ring, your vision’s dim, you’re cold in the sun, & you just don’t want to be dragging yourself around the school all day. So never would Cy doubt that I’ve had colds & never would I doubt that he has cuz we’re living proof that viruses don’t respond to names (just as hurricanes don’t fear the word Texas). All this being said, I would NEVER leave my Cyrus for any other Ron, John, Mike, Brad, or Danny! He’s THE ONLY MAN ON THE FACE OF THE EARTH FOR ME, my soul mate, so I can’t imagine how I’d ever feel the love for another if something bad happened to my baby! So if you'll just give it time, you'll find the one you're looking for. A good pointer would be to find someone whose name compliments your own. If your name is really Eunice, then perhaps a guy named Eugene would be your best match. We shall name our children Tyrus & Miress in boy-girl order so that it looks really cool at Christmas with those 4 angels or snowmen in our front lawn & a sign saying "MERRY CHRISTMAS from IRIS, MIRESS, TYRUS, & CYRUS McRALLEY!" So if you find a boyfriend with a name that goes well with yours, especially his last name (my maiden name being Martin, I get to keep my initials), CLING ONTO HIM FOR DEAR LIFE!!! Then name your kids some names that sound good with all of them. Shakespeare might have thought that "a rose by any other name would smell as sweet," but I don't! A person's name is highly indicative of how compatible they are with you, so look for a person with a good-sounding name that you like.
2006-09-16 03:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Stop......just try to be a nice person, take care of yourself, do good inscholl, join clubs at school, hang out with a group of friends etc. But, for heavens sakes, don't start acting like a little whore to think that is what you need to do to get a boyfriend.
2006-09-16 03:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time just because youre 15 doesnt mean you need a boyfriend. and if you really want a boyfriend just be yourself. and make eye contact smile say hi sooner or later the boys will notice you
2006-09-16 03:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just b urself... thats all u can do... go up 2 him n talk 2 him... get 2 b his friend... then if they break up n he is sad he can lean on u... if he realizes how nice u r then ... there u go but dont push it...
my friend didnt have a boyfriend till she was 18 so dont wry bout it... it happens.. but u will find sum1 u like...
just dont get desperate n go 4 ne body... go 4 sum1 u think is nice (cute is a plus, not a MAJOR reason u wanna date them) go 4 the guy who is nice, got a good personality n is a good listener...
if u look 4 that guy, if u treat him rite, u will have a bf
2006-09-16 03:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by Chelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys don't make the world turn around.You are still young and there are many other things in this world to pay attention to.Just concentrate on ur studies and do ur work perfectly.Be who you are and you will see the changes.
2006-09-16 03:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by julia _bride 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww dw hun, im 14..i totally understand..the right boy for you will come along soon, just try to get to know some and maybe something will happen there
Good luck x
2006-09-16 03:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋