Im already 15 of age but i dont still have any boyfriend.....
I saw my crush yesterday holding the bag of her girlfriend and i felt so very very bad...
im wishing that i was that girl with him... what would i do...
I see my self as a loser...couse i tried crying because of BOYS!!!
2006-09-16 03:12:04 · 20 answers · asked by Eunice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are only 15, do not rush things
2006-09-16 03:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me very carefully. You are 15 years old, okay. You do not NEED a boyfriend, BUT if you want one then maybe you need to be a little more confident about yourself, try chatting with boys more and try being a little more outgoing. It could be that you are shy or maybe boys are intimated by you and just don't know what to say. Acting a little more friendly might help. However, don't be surprised that after all your friendliness that the geek in math class asks you out instead of the guy that you have a crush on. I am 25 and I can tell you from experience it happened to me. Keep trying and even make the first move, if you want something sometimes you have to go after it. OR you wait it out, and see if they make the first move. I was 19 until I had my first bf and we have been together for 6 1/2 years now, and I can tell you he is the best. No other bf could compare, so I don't even care that I didn't have bf's when I was in high school because none of them could ever match up to the one I have now. But I know what you mean and I felt the same way as you in high school. Just try to be a bit more outgoing and confident about yourself, wear your cutest outfit and strut your stuff, you'll get a bf some day, it will be when you least expect it and you won't even know what hit you! : )
2006-09-16 03:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you have a lot of growing up to do. 15 may seem to be adult to you but you have a lot of growing to do, both emotional and physical. My advice is don't get involved too young. be a kid while you still can. Take it slow. Just because you don't have a boyfriend doesn't mean you are a loser hon. I was always one to march to the beat of my own drum, so to speak and I think thats a good thing to do. Don't cave in to peer pressure. As the saying goes, don't jump off the bridge just because it's the 'in' thing to do. It's good to be different, don't let others tell you it's not. Take your time and you will find a boyfriend when the time is right.
2006-09-16 03:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by momofericha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't have a boyfriend until i was sixteen, but i had very real and strong feelings for someone way before. and it sucked! it can be very painful, and lonely. i know the idea is to be independent and secure without someone else, but let's get real:
"don't you want somebody to love...you better find somebody to love" ~grace slick\jefferson airplane
but don't worry; it's not abnormal. there's nothing wrong with you.
i sure wouldn't want to go thru the teen years again. painful time. but if i did, one thing i'd do different, i'd try to look at people beyond appearances, reputations, and first impressions. get to know someone in school you wouldn't normally think of. you may not immediately find them attractive, physically, but if you get to know them and develop real friendship and respect for them, common interests, etc, you may develop feelings for him that are WAY more exciting than just a crush on a hot guy. i'm sorry i missed this opportunity. plus, recently, i saw a guy i had several classes with in highschool. he was quiet, geeky. now he has a good job, has confidence, and he looks good! (sigh) what might have been.
2006-09-16 03:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, You have lots of time to have a boyfriend! Don't dispare! There are more important things in life besides having a boyfriend! Having a boyfriend is overated!
Learn to like yourself for who you are and do not let your self esteem or self image be based on whether you have a boyfriend or not!
Get a hobby and other activities to fill your time! Get involved with school activites and clubs, so you will have interest to discuss with other friends. Get interested in your school work!
You have lots of time in the future for a boyfriend! Take time so you do not make mistakes in your life! Develope freindships with lots of people, so that you will not concentrate so much just on one person!
2006-09-16 03:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Vickie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends are over rated. Enjoy being a kid and don't feel like you have to have a boyfriend because everyone else does. Just be yourself and when the right person comes along you will know it. They will like you for who you are, not for some facade you put on to impress them.
2006-09-16 03:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Joe S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a loser. Chances are that guy and that girl won't even be together by the time they go to college. Your time will come. Focus on other activities and school. Quit obsessing it isn't healthy for you. When you least expect it ; it will happen.
2006-09-16 03:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all 15 year olds have boy/girl friends. That doesn't make you a loser. Don't worry, you will find yourself a nice guy.
2006-09-16 03:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 22 and I still don't have a bf! Don't be in a hurry to get one. You won't die if you don't have one. But if its that important, maybe you should find a guy who's interested in a relationship too.
2006-09-16 03:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you reach your golden years, say 17 or 18.
2006-09-16 03:14:26 · answer #10 · answered by Frank R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is too young i believe.. you shouldn't be in a hurry to find one.. i know what all things maybe going on in ur mind but u need to find a good frend first
2006-09-16 03:17:27 · answer #11 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋